do any of you feel bad about having one dessert because youre scared of being fat and being judged? I tell myself that others are going to love me even if I did gaina few pounds but I wouldn't love myself ..
Sometimes you just have to eat that candy bar or slice of cake etc. Its not going to cause you to gain weight if its just once in a while. I do see where you're coming from, hormones are to thank for that (not).
But I gain weight reeeeal easily !
Me too. It's not worth it though. I'm completely MISREABLE.
It's not worth being really skinny. When I was overweight more people liked me because I was fun and had a big personality. When I was skinny, no one talked to me because I had zero personality. All I cared about was food and let freaking out about gaining weight get in the way of me doing anything. I see tons of girls, of all shapes and sizes who are loved and have friends. Don't let something as superficial as appearance and weight get in the way of life.
Food doesn't make you miserable. A low self esteem makes you miserable.
OP, why are you worried about this? Do *you* look at other people and judge them by their food choices?
If you do, then stop. If your friends do, ask them to stop. Then everyone's happy.