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My friend is dying


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At first they said a few years, then a few months, now a few days.

She is only 25 years old.

She was diagnosed with advanced colorectal cancer in May.

Before the week is up, she will die from it.

She was on my college newspaper with me-  a great writer and editor.

She could always be counted on to join in the festivities- be it a homecoming football game or an intermural soccer game.

We copy edited well into the night together many many times.

She is a good person, a strong person. She is not afraid to die.

The newspaper staff wanted to send her to Europe or to a NASCAR race (she loves Jeff Gordon).

But that was last week- when we thought she had time.

In November, she is supposed to be married in Nevada to her first and only love- James.

She refuses to be known as "Partner 1" or "Spouse 2" in California : )  

But now the wedding is up in the air, the bridal shower is called off, and we're all praying she'll make it to Thursday when we can all see her.

And I'm at a loss.

All I can offer her is my presence, they say...

 

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{{Hugs}} to her, and to all who love and will miss her.

Don't give up.. miracles happen.. {{{hugs}}}

You are a great friend, and I hope to be just as caring/loving to those that I call my friends. 

i'm very sorry to hear about your friend.

{{laurensking}}

life can seem so unfair sometimes.

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.  She sounds lovely.  {{Laurensking}}

sending energy for strength. am so sorry.

I will pray for her. I am a believer in Heaven, so I know she will be going to a place of love and peace.

I'm sorry to hear about your friend.

I'm so sorry...life definitely doesn't seem fair sometimes...

sending {hugs} your way. I'm so sorry for you and your friend. Its hard to leave but sometimes it's even harder to be left behind. Sending prayers up for you and your friend.

I'm so sorry

{laurensking}

I'm so sorry for you, her and all the people who love her....

I am so sorry to hear that - my thoughts are with her and all her friends and family.  Losing someone that young is never easy, bt she is obviously surrounded by people that love her.

I am so very sorry.

sending prayers your way

I am very sorry about your friend. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

ooo reminds me of THIS song (ooo but off by a year! so close!)

It does seem very sad. But when an angel's work is done here on earth, well then they must return to the lord. Of course we question why, and it all seems so senseless...only time will reval all the unknown....Just remember she is going to a better place, no more hurt, tears, pain, no more bad days...and afterall...STARS BELONG TO THE SKY.

So sorry to hear about your dear friend! 

Original Post by futurebeauty:

It does seem very sad. But when an angel's work is done here on earth, well then they must return to the lord. Of course we question why, and it all seems so senseless...only time will reval all the unknown....Just remember she is going to a better place, no more hurt, tears, pain, no more bad days...and afterall...STARS BELONG TO THE SKY.

 o.O

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