Girls w/big boobs- love them or hate them?

I myself am 34 D and I have always wanted smaller boobs. Cons to big boobs- finding shirts that look good, stretch marks (bound to happen), finding support while exercising, and just them getting in the way in general. I would be totally happy with small boobs. But then again they say the grass is always greener on the other side so maybe not. :)

Can anyone relate to my frustration??!

i'm a 32 DD. 108 pounds 5'4.......they used to be bigger when i was around 130 pounds I was a 36DD....I never worked out and ate like crap and I thought that it was okay b/c i thought my boobs compensated.

I think a lot of woman with big boobs (who are heavy) use it as an excuse to not take care of their bodies.....like "well if i lose weight i lose my chest" ....it's such bs.  I hate it when woman are heavy and wear low cut shirts. no one wants to see it. do up your buttons!

i am a size 36 DDD (last i was measured), i am currently in the process of trying to get a reduction. i think because i'm a larger size they are proportioned to my body but i also plan on losing about 20 lbs first and then i want to get reduced to a low D cup. its sucks having to worry about double or triple sports bras when working out, not being able to wear certain tops because the tops look like a tent draped over your breast and the list can go on and on. also i want to be able to find a wider range of bras so i'm excited at the prospect of having much smaller breast!

Mine are 36D and I don't like them. They have always brought me unwelcomed and unholsom attention. I am sincerely considering a reduction in the next few years.

i feel what miss sugar and spice said.

def bums you out to not feel like a woman.

or not feel that you look like one.

to not have cleavage at all no matter what bra you put on.

to be a pear shape w NO boobs!!!!

wtf!!

it sucks to say the least & i CANT wait to get mine : )

yep im doin it!

been savin up!!

Original Post by kaila_a:

i'm a 32 DD. 108 pounds 5'4.......they used to be bigger when i was around 130 pounds I was a 36DD....I never worked out and ate like crap and I thought that it was okay b/c i thought my boobs compensated.

I think a lot of woman with big boobs (who are heavy) use it as an excuse to not take care of their bodies.....like "well if i lose weight i lose my chest" ....it's such bs.  I hate it when woman are heavy and wear low cut shirts. no one wants to see it. do up your buttons!

 *throws bs flag*

Um I think not! I currently have 38DD.... I am 5'7 and 165 lbs...I am curvy...and I love it...when I was heavier I never ever used my breasts as an excuse....it's total bs that you said that they use that as an excuse...I have never met a woman that said I don't want to be healthy becuse then I won't have as big of boobs...as for the women who wear low cut shirts....don't like it don't look...it's confidence maybe they are comfortable with their chests...maybe it's the one part of their body they are proud of...you have no idea...why do you think that they should dress just to please you?....however I do not like it when a woman who is pretty heavy wears a  too tight top and it is very low cut...but then again I don't like it when anyone wears something really really tight and low cut.

Original Post by daughtry_jovi_girl:

Original Post by kaila_a:

i'm a 32 DD. 108 pounds 5'4.......they used to be bigger when i was around 130 pounds I was a 36DD....I never worked out and ate like crap and I thought that it was okay b/c i thought my boobs compensated.

I think a lot of woman with big boobs (who are heavy) use it as an excuse to not take care of their bodies.....like "well if i lose weight i lose my chest" ....it's such bs.  I hate it when woman are heavy and wear low cut shirts. no one wants to see it. do up your buttons!

 *throws bs flag*

Um I think not! I currently have 38DD.... I am 5'7 and 165 lbs...I am curvy...and I love it...when I was heavier I never ever used my breasts as an excuse....it's total bs that you said that they use that as an excuse...I have never met a woman that said I don't want to be healthy becuse then I won't have as big of boobs...as for the women who wear low cut shirts....don't like it don't look...it's confidence maybe they are comfortable with their chests...maybe it's the one part of their body they are proud of...you have no idea...why do you think that they should dress just to please you?....however I do not like it when a woman who is pretty heavy wears a  too tight top and it is very low cut...but then again I don't like it when anyone wears something really really tight and low cut.

I lost 50 lbs and barely lost anything in the breasts - went from 40/42 C/D to 38DD and am now thinking it might be more like 36DDD. Sigh. (As you all doubtlessly know already, when you go down one band size, you have to go up one cup size if the breasts themselves have not changed size - so a 32DD actually has breasts that are three "cup sizes" smaller than a 38DD, and are instead comparable to a 36C). My breasts are a mixed blessing: they are attractive (I think so anyway) but can detract from my professional image so I have to be careful. And of course it's impossible to wear button-down anything.

And don't hate on big girls who wear low cut tops, please - we all have to use what we got. And as some of you might know, when you're big chested it really becomes "matron or wench" when it comes to tops, and if you don't want to look like your aunt Matilda, there aren't a lot of other options.

Original Post by trustwomen:

Original Post by daughtry_jovi_girl:

Original Post by kaila_a:

i'm a 32 DD. 108 pounds 5'4.......they used to be bigger when i was around 130 pounds I was a 36DD....I never worked out and ate like crap and I thought that it was okay b/c i thought my boobs compensated.

I think a lot of woman with big boobs (who are heavy) use it as an excuse to not take care of their bodies.....like "well if i lose weight i lose my chest" ....it's such bs.  I hate it when woman are heavy and wear low cut shirts. no one wants to see it. do up your buttons!

 *throws bs flag*

Um I think not! I currently have 38DD.... I am 5'7 and 165 lbs...I am curvy...and I love it...when I was heavier I never ever used my breasts as an excuse....it's total bs that you said that they use that as an excuse...I have never met a woman that said I don't want to be healthy becuse then I won't have as big of boobs...as for the women who wear low cut shirts....don't like it don't look...it's confidence maybe they are comfortable with their chests...maybe it's the one part of their body they are proud of...you have no idea...why do you think that they should dress just to please you?....however I do not like it when a woman who is pretty heavy wears a  too tight top and it is very low cut...but then again I don't like it when anyone wears something really really tight and low cut.

I lost 50 lbs and barely lost anything in the breasts - went from 40/42 C/D to 38DD and am now thinking it might be more like 36DDD. Sigh. (As you all doubtlessly know already, when you go down one band size, you have to go up one cup size if the breasts themselves have not changed size - so a 32DD actually has breasts that are three "cup sizes" smaller than a 38DD, and are instead comparable to a 36C). My breasts are a mixed blessing: they are attractive (I think so anyway) but can detract from my professional image so I have to be careful. And of course it's impossible to wear button-down anything.

And don't hate on big girls who wear low cut tops, please - we all have to use what we got. And as some of you might know, when you're big chested it really becomes "matron or wench" when it comes to tops, and if you don't want to look like your aunt Matilda, there aren't a lot of other options.

 I hope you don't think I was hating on girls who were low cut tops cause I totally wasn't....I've been there done that...I still wear low cut tops cause like you said...I don't want to look like my aunt matilida!

Original Post by daughtry_jovi_girl:

 I hope you don't think I was hating on girls who were low cut tops cause I totally wasn't....I've been there done that...I still wear low cut tops cause like you said...I don't want to look like my aunt matilida!

I was more referring to the person before you, who wrote "nobody wants to see that".

I, and the many people who often explain to me in ways both appropriate and inappropriate how much they LOVE "seeing that", respectfully disagree.

*cleavage high-five to daughtry_jovi_girl*

EDIT: oh, and to osainto, there are some people who love "pancake nipples". And I, for one, am grateful for that. If we all had the same tastes, most of us would be SOL with respect to finding people who wanted us!! And, for what it's worth, I also like women, with all kinds of breasts. Hell, even missing a breast can be sexy.

Original Post by sun123:

This topic isnt as weird as I thought.
Looked like questioning whether we love or hate women with big boobs.

I was small chested, got very obese, became big chested, lost majority of it and now would settle for any size boobs that looked like boobs without rolling them up like sleeping bags and popping them into a bra.  Ok, an exaggeration but too darn close to reality too.

If your boobs look like boobs, I'll trade.

 I totally LOL at the sleeping bag remark.... Hilarious s*** right there! I think I even got a couple looks from my fellow cubemates! :)

Anyway, I have very large boobs with very large nipples right now. I am 25 weeks pregnant. I wish that they would stay after the baby comes but I lost them with my first and plan to lose them with this one.

am a 38 D ...... and honestly am hoping that when i loose weight it'll reduce ... i love my boobs ... but they stand out and every1 ((guys )) keep staring .... plus ... there are huge boob jokes .....  for instance "ur boobs are so big compared to ur body that it looks like u r gonna fall flat on them .... "

Original Post by cheskar:

i am a 34F and at 5ft3 and only a size 12 (english) i look so out of proportion, its degrading the way guys react to me

I'm sorry, what were you saying?

Original Post by kaila_a:

I think a lot of woman with big boobs (who are heavy) use it as an excuse to not take care of their bodies.....like "well if i lose weight i lose my chest" ....it's such bs.  I hate it when woman are heavy and wear low cut shirts. no one wants to see it. do up your buttons!

That's really rude and inappropriate to post on a weight loss website.

Anyway, regarding the OP I think big boobs are wonderful and I am jealous of you big-busted ladies. I am a full C and want to be bigger! 

boobs are groovy. they change through time. remember all those old national geographics? doesn't seem those women had to worry about sag, but they definitely had it. its sad that in this culture aging is considered so unattractive. it would be nice to live in a society that could value the human body at any age. alas. im an idealist i suppose.

i didn't discover the bra until age 43. at 16, it just made no sense to me to wear something uncomfortable, and i never looked back. then weight gain and gravity conspired to enlighten me. it was like an epiphany. now i like pretty bras, and spend too much money on them, but if i'm going to wear one, it might as well be beautiful. at a 38DD, my choices are limited. 25 lbs down and i haven't had to buy new ones yet, so thats something! cuz otherwise i'd be out at least 900 bucks. chantelle costs money! but they fit perfect! we'll see what the next 25 lb loss brings. ;D

I definitely agree that big boobs are a mixed blessing. I'm a 36 DD-E (depending on the bra), and let me tell you it is hard to find a bra that a] fits, b] gives you adequate support and comfort, and c] doesn't look like your grandma's hideous tent-bra. Plus, I agree with everyone on the unwanted lewd attention they seem to attract (I HATE it when old guys watch me jog/ride my bike, I am not wearing the closer-fitting-breathable-exercise-shirt-thin g for you!).

However, I love my curves, and they are definitely a large part of my hotness. My older sister weighs less than me, but looks heavier because her bust and hips are tiny compared to mine (poor girl! She's also 3 inches shorter than me, so the pounds stick out more).

I would like to loose some of the bust, however, when I lose some of the pounds, but I don't want to be tiny. Just smaller would be great though.

well, since losing weight they have certainly gone down by a size. they really looked nice when i was 30lbs heavier, but not happy with the rest of me. however, i think we are a peace with one another. when i was younger i was small, so i just got used to them. but then i gained weight, a voila, they were big. i actually forgot how small they could get until i lost the weight again. but i am jealous some times when i see nice big ones on a nice body, and often wonder what they feel like, he he.

im a pear but i finally figured out that i am very lucky to have broad shoulders. and ive been building muscle, so my pec muscles are rather built & firm, the girls have a solid base to sit on. while they are small, they are perky and afford me lots of pleasure so i can't complain.

so i think we should all just be thankful for what we have & work it. and im scared of the big C, so im happy to have them. altho if i could afford it and knew the operation would be successful i would probably think about getting them enhanced a little, just so i could play with them more 

ugh.  I have 38 DDD I HATE THEM.  UGH.  They arn't terribly saggy but ugh I hate them.  I think large breasts are kind of gross... with the cleavage that looks like a plumbers ass... CRINGE.

At least I have some half way decent bras so my boobs don't stick together and instead of plumbes ass you can actually see some curve... but still.

Oh and as far as anyone having a problem with big chested women wearing low cut shirts.  Sit and spin  SERSIOUSLY... just about everything they sell is low cut... and untill you've been strangled by your T-shirt... well... you just don't know what a pain in the butt it is to find something to wear.

Oh and Speaking of... If I have to wear another Baby Doll dress where the fabric doesn't actually make it to the bottom of my boobs and instead hangs like a moo moo I will jump off this building. 

Who hear is sick and tired of looking like you weight 100 extra pounds because you can't ever seem to wear anything form fitting, and when you do you look like a Super hero drawn by a 15 year old buy with a perma erection and a bad sence of proportions.

OK Rant over... Deep breath.

I'm a 30F.. but I don't think they look particuarly big... which I don't really understand! Long as I have a good sports bra, and I can find a nice bikini sold in seperates, I don't really mind. Be happy with what you have, the grass is always greener til you get there.  

Bigger gurls dont want to get into shape because of their boobs?  Geez where do you people come from.

 I loveeee my boobs!  People pay good money for fake looking mickey mouse ears and I have natural tear drop shapes for free.  Yes they can can be a nuisance sometimes when it comes to clothing, but those times are def. in the minority.  There are always other options that are cute or even cuter.  A good bra is your best freind as is an actual fitting to find said bra.  I've worked  in stuffy corporate conservative America for years and they haven't posed a problem yet in regards to work attire.  They are shrinking and I am sad!  Based on how I looked int he past, I know I shall still be in the D family!

Original Post by officespudette:

Original Post by nasuoni:

Depends on their personality, to be frank :)

 Well I have big boobs and they have their own personality!  While I am outgoing they are quite shy and look down at the ground all the time...I think it's because occassionally they look in different directions and they get a wonky view of life!

 rotfl!

40 DDD here.  I would like them to get back to a 36/38 D, but other than that I am fine with them.  I wear suits to work, so jackets work great, but when out of work shirts tend to show cleavage (sometimes at work too).

Having large breasts has not kept me from losing weight, being lazy and careless has.  I find that losing weight enhances my breasts and I am okay with that.  I know that my breasts aren't me but are an extension of me.  If you are shallow and only see the breasts, then guess what we aren't going to have a great realtionship. 

My husband is a T and A man, even when I was thinner I had plenty of both to go around.  After 14 years of marriage (tomorrow is our anniversary) and two kids they are still high and firm.  Hubby still comments on them and dare I say, worships at the altar of bOObs. Old girl of 40 proud to have large breasts