this guy

Okay so this is going to sound a little cliched maybe, but there's this guy I met a while ago who asked me out. At the time I just kind of went with it since he seemed kind of forward and didn't think too much. He started texting me a lot and showed a lot of interest, always texted back and seemed happy to meet up. I was flattered and all that and things seemed to be going well, we met up on a few dattes and stuff but then randomly, out of the blue, he just stopped texting. He barely got in contact for about two weeks, and when i finally got a message out of him, he said he'd explain it and he was really busy. Since then (that was about 2-3 months ago) we've not met up and I'm beginning to think that this is not going to happen anymore - and the worse thing is i don't even know if i could call it a relationship? It didn't seem like we'd officiated anyhthing.

He comes online sometimes, but always seems super tired or busy and doesn't always reply. It's ironic that I should like him now, only when he doesn't seem interested. Could he still be interested though? Is it possible there's actually another reason? I don't want to be paranoid and waiting in that cliche way, but it's just another thing bugging me; I'd rather know from him straight out what's going on!

So, can anyone help? I know it's kind of rant-y and typical, but has this happened to anyone? If so, do tell!

thank yoou

Original Post by bmx419:

Lol, at least you admit it. ETA, doesn't that stand for estimated time of arrival??

"It's just if I get the slightest feeling a guy isn't interested, that's it for me."

Trust me, you don't want a needy person who is constantly around or bothering you. It's okay, you're young, you'll grow out this stuff soon enough. Hopefully.

Hahaha, I thought the same thing the first time I read it on another thread.  It means Edited To Add. 

That hasn't exactly happened to me (although I've had my share of annoying text-messes). But it's so confusing when guys are just hot and cold! Seriously!

There was this guy that sat behind me and used to play with my hair all the time and ask me to read the board (even though he could obviously read it...i'm the nearsighted one). And then, one day, he was just like bam-slam, oh, hi, it's you. So confusing!

And then when I tried iming him, he's usually "busy" and doesn't reply. I don't know what's going on! Anyways...there's my rant!