>>>>Help!!<<<< Sh0uLd I CaLL HiM??*****

Ok so me and this guy were talking for a while. He's 24 and I'm 19 about to be 20 in July. Anyways after a month of me and the guy talking he tells me I'm too young for him. He said I'm young minded and because of that he will not give me a chance but we can still be friends. But I feel like he was leading me on. He wanted me to call him everyday, he would text me first thing in the morning, we would stay up on the phone until about 1am in the morning (even though he had to get up by 6am to get ready for work). We would always flirt. He would ask me if i like him... and if i said "no" he would be like "yes you do". I can tell he liked me but he just would not say it. I'm not sure if he's playing mind games or whatever but the next day i sent him a text msg that sd "I need some time to clear my head and I don't think it's a good idea that we talk... at least not for now." He called me about 5 mins later. I didn't answer. He tried calling me again the next day... still i didn't answer it's been about a week now. His b-day was on 02/28 and I did not call him. Well now I'm ok with just being friends... So i'm just wondering should i call him or should i just erase his number. I do think he's into me or else he wouldn't have tried calling me even though i asked him to give me time to clear my head...

I think he's just going to continue giving you a headache because he has no clue what HE wants. It sounds like he enjoys the attention you give him, but that he doesn't want to feel obligted to return the affection. I would say keep your distance, because I just don't think he has your best interests at heart like a real friend would. I think you did the best thing. I wouldn't erase his number, but I wouldn't make myself as available to him as you did before. Just text him in a few days and ask how he's doing if you want to keep the friendship, but watch out for signs that he's flirting. He either wants a relationship or a friendship, there's no middle ground.

Well, unless you want friends with benefits. But that's your decision.

Sounds to me he just likes being in control. He gets to chat to a cute younger girl when he wants, but when he doesn't feel like talking or committing to a relationship, he claims you are too young. Guys like that who crave attention usually don't settle down easily, they still want to play the "chase-me-but-you-can't-have-me" game.

Unless you feel like wasting your time and going along with his games, don't call him.

I agree, he sounds like an ass that wants to be in control of you and the situation. I have a friend who was in the same situation. The guy thought she was too young except when he wanted sex.

 Thank You!

"I'm not sure if he's playing mind games or whatever"

Yes, you are sure, don't lie. Deep down you know he is. He is using you to feed his ego, nothing more. Your instinct to get away was the correct one. Listen to those instincts, girl.