honest thoughts please

I have just posted my before and after pics and need to know what you think. Everytime I look in the mirror today (most days for that matter) I do not like what I see. My husband thinks I look hot (ha ha). That is not what I think. We actually got into a little spat about it tonight. I just need some other thoughts (not that my husbands don't count, cause they do). What do you think?

I do have such a hard time when I look in the mirror to notice the difference. I still see that women who was over 250. I know my husband hates when we go back and fourth about the way I look. That's why last night he told me to keep my comments to myself. I guess it will take a while to get use to everything and I am not even done yet. I am going to come back and read this everyday that I am feeling down and tell myself I am being to hard on myself. One day at a time I guess.

I am glad I am not the only one who has a hard time getting use to the new body and look. 100 pounds is a lot of weight and it changes everything about you.

 

I think you are beautiful.  For years I was the same way, I saw myself as fat although I weighed 105 pounds (that is skin and bones on my frame).  It took me years to figure out that I what I thought I was seeing...an ugly exterior, was actually an ugly interior...So, I went to work on that.

Good luck to you. 

Oit, congrats on your 100 pound loss as well. That is a huge achievment.

figurethefat, the pic was taken right our back door. It is very beautiful here and i work very hard to keep it looking nice.

Thank you all for your thoughts.

beachwalker, yeah, I guess I have been working so hard on the outside now i need to work on the inside.

You look fantastic.  Beautiful.