my hubby has panic attact

hei,my hubby has panic attact.i dont know how to live with him.when he was fine so we had good time,but now he just want to be alone most the time.he not talk to me,he not eat and no sleep.and very often he just drive and i dont know when he is coming back,he dont answer the phone.this really upsent me.if i ask him it  always end up a fight.he say i dont understant he is sick.then i say if you are sick stay home.i dont know what to do.sometimes i want a divorce,but we have two beautful kids.i feel i cant do that to them,them love their father very much. i dont know if i love him any more.any one have good advice?thank you

the answer lies in your heart. only you know if he is lying or telling the truth. trust your instincts. If you think he is cheating and doesn't care about you or the kids then by divorcing him you have lost nothing - because it seems like you've already lost him. tell him you want to help him and then go as a couple to seek that help from a doctor or therapist. i wish you luck for the sake of the kids and for your sake. you deserve better and if he is sick he's worth helping and if he is faking he is worth nothing. good luck

Way late but my hubby also has panic attacks an anxiety. When we first got together we were young (still are) but i just took it for easily angered....well long story short we had a lot of stupid fights til he FINALLY went to the doctor an was diagonsed an given treatment...its still sometimes bumpy but totaly worth it. As hard as it has been at times i know he hates it just as much an is the one having to deal with it. I agree with jdogs3 your the only one who can tell if you still have feelings for him, i know that was one question i never had to ask but people are different.