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Original Post by nasuoni:

Original Post by nomoreexcuses:

whatever the truth is, it's more important to you and not really at all important to us.

Nomo, that has so many meanings.

Really?

What I meant was that none of us know her and none of us have to live her life or be in her life, so whatever is going on in her life, whatever she really is doing and why - it really matters to her, and she shouldn't worry about pleasing or displeasing anonymous people on a message board.  And therefore, she should say what she wants to say.  I do think this would be a great opportunity for her to assess herself, her honesty, her past choices, her hopes and dreams for the future --- like I said in my first post in this thread, actually... I recommend some soul searching.

Original Post by moodymomma1977:

 i iz helpful

You is funny is what you is.

nomoreexcuses

I do recommend soul searching as well.....Like why she feels she needs to fabricate stories, or lie, or try to seek approval from random strangers.

None of that tells of someone with high self esteem, and at the very best it just tells of someone with lots of time on their hands and a truly imaginative mind...

Your words had a lot of meaning because if this is just a story, it truly means nothing to me.

If this is really happening, then I feel for her, and want to help her (hence the very serious first post I made).

I can't take this seriously knowing her past history through posting on here though...It doesn't sound like any of it is real.

I see what you're saying.

But having seen all kinds of things in my time here, I am fairly conservative in what I'd "put stock in" and actually believe, versus everything else which is possibly true and possibly false, and so I treat it as if it were true, with the understanding that it might not be.  I'd rather give possibly useful advice or thoughts than useless [ok, sometimes i say useless things ( . )( . ) ] 

And even if the OP's story is not true, that doesn't mean that there aren't people reading this board (many more people read than post) who is or has been in a similar situation.  So I'm speaking to any such reader as much as I am to the OP.

Original Post by nasuoni:

Original Post by moodymomma1977:

 i iz helpful

You is funny is what you is.

Original Post by nasuoni:

If this is really happening, then I feel for her, and want to help her (hence the very serious first post I made).

I can't take this seriously knowing her past history through posting on here though...It doesn't sound like any of it is real.

i agree with you nasuoni... at first i read what she wrote and thought

"oh my goodness! poor kid.. poor boyfriend"

i had planned on coming back to post my reply/opinion/huggles, but when i came back she had already been busted.  and her OP was deleted.

anyway... like you said.  it's going to be hard to take her seriously from now on  

in fact, i probably wont even bother to read her threads now.

*thinks for a second*

actually.... that's not true.  i probably WILL read her threads for shipts-n-grins and entertainment purposes. 

Wow, I fell violated.  I actually posted in my journal that I felt for these young girls.  Damn I am a sucker.  I would never think to check other threads.  Hmmmm