Ladies and fella's I am starting a HUG or PAT ON THE BACKPage for WDV1220.. He needs our support.

Ladies, I know most of us have posted on Wdv1220 post. I need for you all to Join me in a hug.. AND if you got something to say that will motivate him that would be nice. We have a friend on here that needs are love, hugs and support.. Join me will you please.

To: WDV1220~~God can make a way out of know way. Just trust in him and you will see.

Love a friend that understands.....

~Lynn

I'll jump in with a manly slap on the back... hang in there, guy.  Major points to you for always trying to be fair to the near-ex.  There are women that appreciate that- sorry she's such a creep about it.

Nothing beats a real Hug, but this will have to do.  I have found this board is about more than just dieting (ooooo a nasty word, I know :) ) it is about a group of people caring and supporting each other no matter what our different challenges may be.  I am sorry the X is being unfair (which I am sure is an understatement :)  ).

Hang in there and come and vent anytime you want.

  

WOW!!  Thank you!

count on me for a big hug!

another one from here----(((((((((hug))))))))))))!

Asuperhumungousfantasmagoricalvirtualhugfromm etoo!!!  (((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))

Wow!  All of that in one breath....  Thank you!!

I was reading and updating myself on your post wdv!!!!  and they say men are a pain...I say woman can be a much bigger pain...lol..I can say that I am one.  Hang in there.  There is always happiness out there it just takes some of us a little longer to find it.

Hugs heading your way.....A great big BEAR HUG!!!

Jamie

Hugs to you WDV - when the mist clears and the pain diminishes, you will see that life goes on and maybe gets even better than you dreamed it could be!  That is my prayer for you!

Oh goodness WDV!  I am so sorry you are going through this!  You WILL make it through, you WILL survive!  We are here for you!  (((((((((HUGS))))))

~Amberly

Thanks girls for the HUGS for WDV. Keep them coming he is going to need all the hugs he can get losing these 30 pounds and dealing with the stress of a soon to be EX.

Thanks again for the help with this.

~Lynn

Well, I'm not a lady and I don't know you very well, so we'll start with a pat on the back. :D

It's great that you want to get healthy.  Like others have said, you should really do it for yourself.  However, that's by no means a demotivator.  On the contrary, since I started eating better and exercising, I feel so much better, I don't ever want to be the way I was again.  I look FORWARD to hitting the gym for a workout.  I think you'll feel the same way.  It can be hard at first.  I forced myself to go even though I thought I didn't want to.  Afterwards, the endorphins were pumping and I felt like a new man.

Besides, you lose a little weight and who knows?  Maybe your wife will be the one worried that she's not attractive enough for your relationship.  Might put her in her place a bit.

We're pullin' for ya, man.  We all know what it's like trying to get motivated.  That's the hardest part.  We also know that you can do it.

(Disclaimer:  I don't mean to rip on your wife.  I'm sure you love her.  She just sounds like someone I wouldn't take that kind guff from.)

(((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))

Dggeek, Thanks for joining in on the post.. I am going to change the held line a bit so more men will come.. Thanks for that wonderful post. That is going to really up lift my friend...

~Lynn

Stand tall.  Take in a deep breath.  Are you ready?  'cuz here comes a industrial stregth supersized (((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))!Now, don't you feel better!

May the sun shine upon your face, and the wind be at your back.  May all your foes realize your strength, and turn tale, and run.

Have a great day.

love, from a friend, Karen

you are a stronger person than a lot of us to deal with what you are dealing with.  Stay strong and take care of yourself and your son...

Offering my ((((((((hugs)))))))))) and good wishes!

Oh I guess I can wait in line to give you another waaaaaaaaaarm huuuuuuuuug... Great idea, Lynn!

WDV1220~ you have a lot of strength to start your journey, I salute your courage. I am in a relationship and I don't care what the scales say I just want him to be healthy and happy. That probably would be the only reason I would want him to lose weight. We just try to be open with each other as much as we can and trust. And trust builds on understanding.

Anyway, keep posting here and keep us posted and if you need another hug - it's here for you. Many of them (unfortunately for me - I will have to wait in line - again)

LOVE

Holy Moly.... All of this means a ton to me (no pun intended).   Thank you all very much!!

I know that soon the times will be getting harder and I'll need some outlet... I think I've found it here.  Thank you.

I'm so, so sorry for all that you are going through!

You'll make it through this, and we'll be here to support you!