lalabanana

has anyone heard from lala? is she ok???

The last I saw, she was doing fine and feeling okay, but had decided to more or less leave the boards as some of the constant stream of ED posts were becoming triggering... at least that's what I think. Hope it's still the case :-)

I think Smash is right. At least, I hope so too. I haven't heard anything from Lala in a very long time. She's still listed as a moderator.

what about positivelinny? I probably haven't heard from her in at least a year

I've often wondered about lala and how she is getting on, I'd really like to hear how shes doing, I hope all is going well for her. She was an amazing help here.

I heard from positivelinney about 5 weeks ago, when I first joined I asked her for advice. She seemed to be doing very well to me.

Hmm - LaLa always was quite rude to me even when I was just expressing an opinion so for her not to be on these forums anymore is alright with me - but I do hope she is alright in general and if posting on these forums was causing her to relapse then I am glad for her health that she no longer contributes.

Original Post by giasbash6260:

Hmm - LaLa always was quite rude to me even when I was just expressing an opinion so for her not to be on these forums anymore is alright with me - but I do hope she is alright in general and if posting on these forums was causing her to relapse then I am glad for her health that she no longer contributes.

GG, I'd venture to guess that one of the reasons Lala found this site to be unhealthy and triggering is BECAUSE of posters like you who promote unhealthy lifestyles and engage in various forms of narcissistic, metaphorical vomiting all over this site. 

she was great.  we started on the site about the same time, i think she may have been a bit before me but my guess is that shes actually out living life, getting her education and future in line, im sure shes doing great!

Original Post by giasbash6260:

Hmm - LaLa always was quite rude to me even when I was just expressing an opinion so for her not to be on these forums anymore is alright with me - but I do hope she is alright in general and if posting on these forums was causing her to relapse then I am glad for her health that she no longer contributes.

giasbash6260, are you here in the WG forum with an intention to gain weight or alter your diet? If so you are welcome. If not, maybe this isn't the forum for you.

Lala is great, she just tried to enforce a healthful approach to food and made sure no one was violating the CC mission with overly restrictive triggering diets.

Original Post by giasbash6260:

Original Post by nycgirl:

Original Post by giasbash6260:

Hmm - LaLa always was quite rude to me even when I was just expressing an opinion so for her not to be on these forums anymore is alright with me - but I do hope she is alright in general and if posting on these forums was causing her to relapse then I am glad for her health that she no longer contributes.

giasbash6260, are you here in the WG forum with an intention to gain weight or alter your diet? If so you are welcome. If not, maybe this isn't the forum for you.

Lala is great, she just tried to enforce a healthful approach to food and made sure no one was violating the CC mission with overly restrictive triggering diets.

This was a featured forum post on the front page of the forum site... I simply go into posts that way, I don't purposely go into specific areas of the forums - I simply saw lala's name mentioned and wanted to see what's up - that's all. And by the way Laura916, LALA never ever seemed like she liked my style of eating so I really DON'T think I was ANY sort of reason for her to leave.

at the risk of compromising this thread, which is an expression of good wishes and concern for someone who had a truly positive impact, i have to say...

...GG, your response to my statement is the most beautiful representation of your narcissistic blinders, so thank you for that sample.  Lala was never jealous of you, my dear.  But unhealthy eating behaviors, disordered relationships with exercise and just general obsessions with appearance and vanity--all of which you embody--can be triggering to someone who is recovering from an ED.  But, god, your response is brilliant.  Thanks for that. 

Alright get it back on topic. And if you have more to say to each other, please do it in PMs or some other manner.

Thanks ...

eek, I won't touch this subject... but for the record I too found this thread on the main page in the Forums. I was never in the Weight Gain forum, and I didn't realize this thread was from there until after

Oh oops are we not supposed to post in in the maintenance or weight gain forum if you're trying to lose? I think I've done that before, but it was in response to other people's questions. Sorry, I didn't know  I'll stay away from these forums from now on.

And I read lala's journal a while back and it said she was leaving CC for a while because the atmosphere was toxic. I think she just needed a break. I hope she's doing well, too!

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Original Post by jcl76:

Oh oops are we not supposed to post in in the maintenance or weight gain forum if you're trying to lose? I think I've done that before, but it was in response to other people's questions. Sorry, I didn't know I'll stay away from these forums from now on.

 

And I read lala's journal a while back and it said she was leaving CC for a while because the atmosphere was toxic. I think she just needed a break. I hope she's doing well, too!

I guess it depends on what subject preceisely you are posting, and in what tone, that makes the determination in which forum you should be posting in. There are no "rules" to where you can post, I didn't mean to imply as such.