Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Pansexuals, Transsexuals, and everyone in between! Come here for friends and support!

Welcome welcome. ^_^ My name is Amanda. Pleasure to meet your acquaintance.

If you are part of the LGBTQ community (or if you are straight, you are welcome also), I decided to make this forum for anyone who needs support.

There is so many great sites that offer communication and support between queer youth. www.mogenic.com is personally my favorite site.

This is also a place where you will be able to just BE YOURSELF. That is the most important thing.

I am doing this because when I came out, I didn't have much support. I felt alone. And I don't want anyone to ever feel this way.

I am actually pansexual, which means I love someone for them, not their gender. But I do lean more towards the female sex.

Feel free to introduce yourself. ^_^ And have fun!

 And for the record, I think a threesome is a very nice fantasy too, but in reality it most likely would be awkward and embarassing.

 I am clear with him but I think his eagerness and desire overshadows whatever I say haha 

I agree with you. Threesomes sound nice in my mind but then when I start to think about it, I honestly believe it would not work for me. I do like to think things through, and often people say I think too much. However, pertaining to this subject, I do believe people really need to think things well before doing anything for the sake of the relationship.

I just can't think of any rules that would be fair, make me feel comfortable, and still be enjoyable. Nor would I ever be able to decide on someone for that. It just isn't feasible to me.

I have a friend who had a threesome with her husband and one of her friends.  During the threesome it was not what she expected (not as enjoyable as she thought it would be) and it pretty much ruined her relationship with her friend.  It also did damage to her and her husband's relationship too.  So I think you ladies are smart for keeping it "fantasy."

to all the married women out there. did you tell your husbands that you were bisexual when you started dating, or what?

Well, we met online (OkCupid) and I had it in my profile to begin with, so it wasn't an issue. If that hadn't been the case, I assume I would have mentioned it early on, yeah.

My husband knew even before we started dating that I'm bisexual.  And he of course has always not so secretly hoped that I would invite another woman to join us.  Not gonna happen.  But he's also always had a fear that I'll decide one day that I would rather be with a woman and leave him.  So it's pretty frustrating for us.

Are there any men out there who are married and bisexual?  If so, has it affected your relationship with your wife?

Ha, I guess that was a convo-killer. Clearly, on this forum, the answer is no. ;-)

 

My husband and I were friends before we started dating, so he knew who I was (that I had iffy feelings about monogamy and that I'm bi.) It was never a problem for either of us... though I suppose if it was, we wouldn't be married today!

are there no men reading this thread at all? married or otherwise?

Well... I am not in a relationship right now.

When I said I was pansexual... I really don't know what I am. This is why I created this thread so that everyone could get support from everyone else. ^_^

I am not going to be dating anyone for a while. Before I love anyone else... I need to love myself.

Hi everyone...I'm a 31 year old woman who happens to love a woman.  :)  I have a hard time saying lesbian because I do find men attractive.  I have a hard time saying bisexual because..well...I don't actually know why.  I guess maybe I'm still working on accepting myself for who I really am, so I'm having a hard time "labeling" myself.  I hate labels.  I love my partner very much and most of my relationships that have been positive have been with women, so for that reason, I tend to gravitate toward women.  Not that I'm man-bashing..but I've had some crappy relationships with men..and I feel most comfortable and safe with a woman.  :)

 

 

Hi everyone. I'm 31 bisexual. I have been married 12 years. I have a open relationship with my husband. in meaning I tell him everything, I dont lie about anything . he knows everything. I do hes meet my girlfriends before and  has been ok with  it all.  I have liked girls and boys since I was in grade school.

Wow, another married bi woman in an open relationship. Yay! Is your husband free to play on the side as well?

hi! i'm new and looking for friends:

i'm pansexual (which is easy to admit over the internet) rather than announce it at school.

it's annoying to her the girls at school say they're bisexual when they haven't even had sex with another female. apparently it's the"cool-thing" to say nowadays. 

p.s. love androgynous looks. 

Original Post by aiseiah:

hi! i'm new and looking for friends:

i'm pansexual (which is easy to admit over the internet) rather than announce it at school.

it's annoying to her the girls at school say they're bisexual when they haven't even had sex with another female. apparently it's the"cool-thing" to say nowadays. 

p.s. love androgynous looks. 

 Well... you don't necessarily had to of had sex with another female in order to call yourself part of the LGBTQ community.

I personally am a virgin& nbsp;and I know very well  that I like girls.  <3

And welcome. ^_^

p.s. I love doing the&nbs p;androgynous look. And I  ;also love when other peo ple do it too. XD 

I'm so surprised to see young people embracing pansexuality. It was never around when I was in high school! Hell, even bisexuality was a taboo where I went (and that was five years ago! now, every other kid I meet from my home town is gay or bi!)

how do you kids settle on pansexuality? how is it recieved?

(ps - LOVE androgeny!)

Original Post by aiseiah:
it's annoying to her the girls at school say they're bisexual when they haven't even had sex with another female. apparently it's the"cool-thing" to say nowadays. 

Yeah, I agree that it can be considered a "cool thing" lately, which is really obnoxious. It disparages actual queer folk. 

But I have to agree with wikidlette that you most certainly don't have to have sex to know what your sexual orientation is. Do you think straight girls have no idea whether or not they like boys, and vice versa, until the minute they have sex for the first time? Of course not. You usually know from a very young age. (Whether you're truly discovering your orientation or trying to be cool, though, is an entirely different story.)

I didn't "realize" I was bi until I was about 14 or 15, but I also didn't know what it meant until around then. I didn't have any relationships with girls until I was a senior in high school, but looking back on it, I've realized that I had crushes on a couple of my best girlfriends back as far as 5th grade. I didn't know at the time that my feelings were sexual, and I didn't think about them naked or anything like that - I just wanted to be close and cuddly and touchy with them.

Do any of you have experiences like that? Realizing you had a crush on a same-sex childhood friend, etc? 

yes I lied to one of my bestfriends that I didnt no how to french kiss I was 11 at time so she tought me how to kiss.but I really knew how. is that bad of me lol

Hahaha! That's hilarious. I didn't kiss her, but I did practice holding hands and slow-dancing with my best friend. Aww...

awww ive done that 2 lol but sad to say we are no longer friends lol I moved away when I was 16.

Original Post by deedus:

I have a friend who had a threesome with her husband and one of her friends. During the threesome it was not what she expected (not as enjoyable as she thought it would be) and it pretty much ruined her relationship with her friend. It also did damage to her and her husband's relationship too. So I think you ladies are smart for keeping it "fantasy."

 Threesomes can do work and be fun but I wouldn't try it at home! Works for me in neutral places and with strangers or friends with benefits only.

Wouldn't want a third person (or a fourth...) in my bed at home, that's private territory.