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so i love my skinny friends but...
when im with them, i eat like them. i try not to but then theyre like whats wrong do you think your fat? of course if i say yes, then theyre all like no no your perfect. so most of the time im like nah and i take the candy bar theyve handed me. also they always bring me candy and snacks when they come over (like halloween gift bags!). i want to make healthier choices but i don't wanna be rude either ya know?
It's not rude if you simply decline the candy bar. If they ask you if you think you're fat, say something like, "I'm not now, but if I keep eating these candy bars I will be!"
Don't let ANYONE pressure you into eating. My friends do the EXACT same thing... but not all people were born equal. My skinny friends are the lucky ones. They can eat whatever they want and not care. I can't.
Turn the food down. If they ask you "Do you think your fat?!" reply with "No, I'm just not hungry." or "No, i just don't like too much chocolate"
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have a couple of skinny friends myself, but there's one in particular that I've known for a really long time, and she has always offered me food. We even work together now and she's always bringing little goodies and giving them to me. She'll stay the night at my house sometimes and i know before she even gets there that we're going to walk to the closest gas station and stock up on goodies. Sometimes i even dread her coming over, cause i don't know how to turn her down, it's become like a sort of tradition now. I don't know how she stays so thin. She even tries to gain weight, she's a total of 102 lbs but she's only like 5ft 2. All I know is that i have to watch everything i eat, and she doesn't!

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