Low 'drive'

Hello all:

I'm pretty shy, so I'm coming here for advice...for whatever reason, over the last couple of months my libido has been really low. It wasn't always like this--quite the opposite in face.

I think it could be a couple of things, one, i've been on the pill and I've heard that can just depleat your interest. I think i've also had low self esteem lately, I've gained a little weight (not much--and I'm still in a very healthy 'zone') but might that be taking a toll?

This is getting to me--and my husband. Although, he wont say so because he doesn't want me to feel bad about not being interested, but I don't want him to think its him, either! BTW, it isn't, I LOVE my husband and find him very sexy--I'm just not interested in having sex! Help!!

Hello positive-outlook

I went through a similar experience a few months ago and was referred to a specialist by my family doctor. It was very useful to find out that if one has been on a certain kind of pill (mine was the combined pill) - it does lead up to vaginal dryness and loss of libido.

I have been put on the progesterone only pill and I feel my body has responded positively. This may or may not be relevant to you but I suggest seeing a gynaecologist - in case your issues turn out to be pill-related.

Hope this is of help..

note: I have a BMI of 21-22 and exercise regularly - so it wasn't weight related issues in my case either.

Thank you Michelleb--I've been thinking about talking to my gyno anyway because I've heard this more and more, that it can be related to the pill. I think this just re-affirms my suspicions.

Best