What do men look for in a woman?

like whats the ideal size??

and in general
what do men look for in a woman??

depends on what time of day it is?? wink wink lol

Well katie, sense you where kind enough to post in my thread a few minutes ago i will return the favor ;).

*tries to think of a family-friendly way of saying it*... i really dont care for skinny women, i prefer some meat for cushion you see. I consider myself an a** man, cant get enough of it.  one of my favorite websites was 40inchesplus but i guess they stopped running it (so kids dont bother ;), from the title you can probabaly tell what my range is.

now im sure you hear a lot that beuty is on the inside, which is true for the most part... but i dont think i dig fat chicks too well, i mean im not that good with women so sometimes i just take what i can get as all as the butt is in proper order.

all in all you asked a very general question and as most will tell you it varies greatly from guy to guy, to me its a nice round a** ;).

I'm not a man, but I'm not sure how this question can be answered.

What's the best pizza topping? I mean is there a definitive answer to that? My husband HATES small, little mousey women (heh go figure) but my old boyfriend thought they were the sexiest women alive.

i was getting ready to answer all the personality traits I'm attracted to, but then i read the post and I don't know if you are talking about physically so...

physically:

eyes first. I tend to think most women are very pretty. I didn't always feel that way but over the years I have developed an attraction to more types of women.

blonde, brunette, redhead, doesn't matter. race doesn't matter.

skinny, a little thick doesnt matter. If I had to choose a preference, I would take kirstey alley anyday over one of those anemic little models you see on style network.

big boobs, small boobs, doesnt matter. really.

this might sound weird... but i like a nice back. I don't think I'm alone, but a nice smooth back is sexy with a tank top.

also, sweat pants a white T and a baseball Cap with a pony tail through it is hot.

or you know, whatever the other guys say :)

personality:

low maintanence.

love a woman with good musical taste but it's not a make it or break it with me.

has a good sense of humor, doesn't make me feel dumb when im going out on a limb to try and make her laugh. can laugh at herself as well as me.

just a caring woman. i see so many cynical people these days, that I want a breath of fresh air.

oh yeah and for me... AGE doesnt matter within reason. Obviously I'm no pedo, and I'd probably cut it off pushing 50, but I am actually really attracted to women in their 30s... i know that's not typical though.

they like T&A! ha ha ha ok I'm not a guy but just an educated guess here....lol

I like athletic girls that arent skin and bone but also arent muscle builders.  You know,  A healthy look.  Other than that, she has to be proportional in t and a.  Tan is nice and beautiful eyes are very important.  Personality and sense of humor are very important as well. 

If you know this girl then send her my way!

I've heard this beautiful eye thing a lot, so it prompted me to ask:

What do you count as beautiful eyes? Really unusual colors, or what?

I actually love eyes and too tell you the truth, I dont think I have seen ugly eyes.  Color isnt important cause my ex had beautiful brown eyes and my ex before her had amazing blue eyes. 

They're all diff. I can tell you that my husband basically pukes at any boobs bigger than a b cup. See? Oh, he also likes thinner lips, squinty eyes (not asian and not renee zellweger), and really white skin. And red hair. and pointy noses.

*well, he actually pukes at anything but me! I have it made.

I think this is a weird question.

Most guys are much less picky about this stuff than women are when it comes to guys.

I'm 6'1", I've been attracted to girls of all shapes and sizes. There is no "template female" I'm attracted to.

I would tend to agree, but the amount of attention I have got from males (positive attention) is MUCH higher at my current weight than when I was 30, or even 20, pounds heavier. And I wasn't medically overweight at either time, though at 30 pounds more, I was close.

One study of college-age males, regarding college-age females, showed that they preferred lowest-healthy weights; BMIs in the 19-20 range. Below 17 the trend was that they were fairly turned off, and above 22 attraction gradually fell as the height/weight ratio increased. 17.5-22.5 received the best "scores."

http://www.halls.md/bmi/attractive.htm

This is probably less accurate as one ages out of one's early 20s.

My question is, "What kind of man is looking for me?" HA!

I don't get alot of attention from guys.. I am not ugly, I would not say that I am beautiful, but I think I am pretty.  My fiance says that I get stared at all the time but that I just don't notice...  Can that be true? 

I'm pretty much attracted to any woman - at least physically.  I do tend to like petite women - small breasts, doe eyes, long hair.  I also like redheads (married to one!).  Having said that, when I was single I tried every flavor, size, and shape - women are wonderful.

The thing is that it's more about how you carry yourself.  Are you self-confident, funny, happy, relaxed?  Do you smile?  Are you interested in me and interesting to be around? 

Before you go and say that you need to attract them first and then you can show your personality - I disagree.  It is clear in how you carry yourself. You look more attractive, more intelligent, etc.  That is what gets people's attention.

I actually believe it works for men too.  I had a friend (a guy) growing up who was...um.. not very attractive by any standard - he always had a beautiful girlfriend though.  What he was was very sure of himself.  He looked women in the eyes, showed his personality, engaged with girls and was really interested in what they had to say.  I had always been a shy person, but talking to him and taking his approach into account really changed ability to meet and date girls.

I agree I think confidence and is very important and a lot of people need to find out who they are and use that to meet and find a date rather than try and be someone else.  It is really easy to tell when someone is confident and comfortable with them self and in my opinion its is very sexy.

Jaina that works the same way for guys though. a guy who is in shape is going to get more attention than one who is overweight. it's just natural.

i've dated so many different types of guys... some really good looking, some not very attractive at all. #1 thing for me... good personality! must be funny, confident, silly, charming, bla bla bla.

sure, right off the bat it helps to be attractive, it'll draw the ladies in. but once some hot, obnoxious, disgusting jack-ass opens up his mouth, the hotness turns into absolute revulsion. so work on the personality, that's what most of us are after, i believe.

i'm lucky, i now have the best of both worlds!

A guy I worked with-- who I knew had a wicked crush on a girl from another close by store in our chain.  He didn't know her name but from his description (pretty, dark hair, funny, wears sneakers) I thought he was talking about Stacy, who is taller than me and is a size 0 with a knockout face.

Of course, when I got 'traded' to that store and he came to visit me, he pointed out his crush to me-- Emma--5'2", chubby, nice-looking but not striking.

His main qualifications were: dark hair, loud, smart, and a sense of humor.  (Loud seemed weird but he thought it was necessary because he's a quiet one).

Do guys change there preferences with age? Im a chick so i really cant offer much to this post but i do know that as I tend to get older im more attractive to all types of men instead of just one specific thing like i used to be in my teens and twenties. Just was wondering if guys change as they get older to with what they are attracted to and like.

yeah we do. there is no doubt about it. Like I said in my post I am attracted to all different colors, sizes and shapes. I wouldn't have said that before.