i miss my boyfriend

I feel so lost, i need him...but he doesnt know if he wants to get back. We were together a year, and we were so close...we never went a day without talking since we met each other, he knows so much about me...i dont know what to do...

If he 'doesn't know' if he wants to get back then he means he doesn't want to get back...   Some people enjoy very close relationships, talking every day, sharing all the secrets etc., others find it gets too much and they feel suffocated or trapped.   Try to remember what it was you used to do before you met him and see if you can pick up where you left off.  Also try to keep yourself busy.... time is a great healer and you will feel better in the future, even if you're not so good now.  Best of luck

Hmmmm ...I sort of can relate to what you are feeling...find something else to fill the dead time....exercise...go to the movies...go out but dont stay inside just thinking about it...go for a walk...call up friends and invite them over to hang out...

i am sorry you feel this way. these things take time - he's giving himself time to think but you need to allow YOURSELF time also. is HE good enough for you? once you remove yourself from the situation a bit, your mind is clearer to make decisions. maybe you'll find it's for the best. but i think that going after him when you're still so emotional about the break up is a really bad idea. hope you make a good decision, and i agree with the above post, to keep yourself busy. it is very important

thanks guys :)