Missing Son, Prayers Please**-- BODY FOUND--**
EDIT: Chirs' body was found 19 months after he went missing. It is evident that he had gone for a drive that night and went off the road in the canyon.
A virtual-memorial page was set up for Chris http://christopher-coan.virtual-memorials.com /
EDIT: Chris went missing September 3rd 2007, here is a link to his web site, please let everyone you know know about this. Thank you.
www.FindChris.org
I'm crying as I'm typing, so please overlook all typos...I'm really not all here.
Our son, who turned 18 last month, has been missing now for 76 hours. He went to work Monday, left work and no one has heard from him nor seen him since. He wasn't having any problems with us, Sunday we all were together and had a great time. He wasn't having any problems with his girlfriend. He did have a bad day at work and we are guessing he went off on a drive to cool down, but we really don't know. He didn't say anything to anybody about where he was going. He was in a hurry to get to work that day and left his wallet home. So he has no money on him nor any access to money. We were able to get into his bank account today and there hasn't been any unusual activity in the last month. We have called everyone he knows and no one knows anything. His girlfriend has called everyone she can think of too.
This is so out of character for him. He has never done anything like this before.
The police are involved and doing all they can. Two different aerial searches were done today and tomorrow there is a ground search going on with volunteers and the police department. He has been listed as a missing person in all 50 states along with a description of his blazer. The police department made up fliers for us to put around town. The top of it says "Missing Person, Suspicious Circumstances".
This is so unreal. This is something that happens on TV, not in real life. The roller coaster of emotions is beyond imagination. The possibilities of what has happened to him and where he might be are endless. To the East of us is a canyon, to the West is desert hills. He could be anywhere. Not knowing anything is the worst.
My husband and our other children are hitting their limits too. Our home is crazy is an understatement. We have had lots of friends and family offer love and support. Meals have been brought in for three days. Our phones are ringing off the hook with well wishers and everyone wondering what they can do.
I'm sorry for going on and on, I just want to cover all the bases, but I'm sure I've missed some things.
Prayers are definitely welcome.
Mostly I'm still in shock. I'm not sure I'll be back on the site for a while. I will post as soon as we know anything.
Please everyone take care, and go hug your kids...
EDIT: Here is a link to the news paper artical.
http://www.thespectrum.com/apps/pbcs.dll/arti cle?AID=/20070907/NEWS01/709070304
I tried uploading the flier but it didn't happen, I'm not sure why.
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. It does help to know that people care.
EDIT: I took a picture of the flier and added it to my pictures
EDIT: Here is a link to the web site http://www.findchris.org/
Chris, come home already. Pretty please? This isn't fun for any of us.
*sigh* I really hope all is okay. Keep strong and your son is in the prayers of thousands. <3
I know I edited my last post and added the following information, however after I edited it, I noticed that Shannon had posted. I meant to repost that day and I had to run and forgot about it until now. That is the reason I am reposting this information, just to make sure she sees.
http://www.texasequusearch.org/about_us.html
Might have a look at them. I know searching has been done by 4 wheelers and on foot, this organization is a non for profit organization out of Texas that search on horseback.
And I know that you aren't real big on physics. However, I have saw investigation shows/forensic shows where they have been right(unless the facts in the show are altered) but the types of shows they are, I don't think they would be. I, myself, am not sure how I feel about them, but here is a link to one
http://www.francinebizzari.com/content/view/1 8/34/
Her website states:
Police Investigations
Police investigations such as, missing person, murder cases, and lost articles are done free of charge, however, if it’s a case which is out of state that involves travel and lodging will have to be provided by the one who hires her.
She is in New York.
The bodies of the two other gentelmen that were missing were found. I'm having a hard time with it. It scares me. Here is a link to the artical that was in the paper today. I'm going to try again to get in touch with the parents to let them know of our prayers are with their families as they are going through this hard time.
http://www.thespectrum.com/apps/pbcs.dll/arti cle?AID=/20071119/NEWS01/711190306
Berel is to the west of us not very far. That is where they were found.
Thank you again for your candles and well wishes. I really need them. I'm not sure how much longer I can do this.
~Shannon
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.c fm?l=eng&cid=4756647
My candle for today
Shannon I think you might benefit from a support group. Here is a link to a support group for missing adults. I know Chris is your child, but technically he is an adult. Still, everyone there knows what your going through.
http://www.theyaremissed.org/ncma/content.php ?webid=hope2support
{{{{Hugs}}}} I am so sorry you had to hear bad news about the two men. They are not Chris. Hang in there Hun.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.c fm?l=eng&cid=4757944
I can't imagine what you are going through. You're in my daily prayers.
Chris reminds me of my youngest - she has the same color hair and eyes.
Dearest Shannon, Our strength comes from within, From the Lord. Draw on him as you are getting weaker. We All Love you hun and continue to be here for your vent. Please get a hug from your husband ... Know that it is my arms giving you a hug today! MUAH!
Dear Lord, Please hear my prayer I come to you on bended knee once again for Shannon and her family. It is unbealevable in our human minds that he is still gone. It feels as though Chris should have been found by now. I know that a year to us is only a second for you. I understand that the answers are all in your hands to be given to us in Your time. I do fear that this family is nearing the breaking point and needs your STRONG hands to GUIDE them. They Lean on you Lord and ask that YOUR will be done. Continue to Bless them in thier everyday and continue to hold them in Your strong and wonderful hands.
In your most Precious name, Jesus, AMEN
Bug in Alaska
Praying so hard for peace to enfold you all right now. I cannot fathom how difficult tomorrow will be without Chris.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Please try and be thankful for the family that surrounds you and knowing that you have friends who love you.
My prayer candle for you, Shannon, Chris, and your family.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.c fm?l=eng&cid=4771172
God Bless You, and may you somehow find peace from Jesus during this difficult time.
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