My New Lifestyle

A medical problem was the deciding factor in Melindalittle’s decision to start losing weight. She started with the Weight Watchers program and now she watches what she eats, monitors her calorie intake, and makes healthy food choices. Having to travel for her job and finding healthful foods to eat was an interesting challenge to do regularly, along with engaging in physical activities and staying motivated. She persevered and has lost 38lbs.
She contacted us through our Share Your Story feature, and provided the following answers to our questionnaire.
1. What made you decide to lose weight this time?
About 2 years ago I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. My mother died from complications of the medications she was taking for the disease about a year before my diagnosis. She was for as long as I can remember overweight and struggling with the effects of this debilitating disease. I used the diagnosis as an excuse to let up on exercise. I was struggling with significant joint pain and side effects from the medication as well as serious fatigue (another side effect from RA).
Then last Christmas I noticed all of my clothes were either too tight or no longer fit at all, but I had convinced myself that it was due to menopause and medication. The scale at my gym was not working properly so I had been able to pretend for a while that I was not really gaining weight, but when I went to the doctor and the scale said 186 pounds I was blown away. On the day after Christmas I went to buy a couple of new suits for work, and when I realized that size 14's were too tight I knew it was time to get serious.
2. What other "diets" (programs, products, plans, or services) had you tried in the past?
I have done everything from prescription and over the counter diet pills to Nutrisystem, Jenny Craig and have joined Weight Watchers numerous times. At Christmas last year I joined Weight Watchers for the umpteenth time and actually lost about 20 pounds on it. When I started exercising though I was burning a lot of calories and couldn't figure out how to make Weight Watchers work for me.
3. What changes did you make to your usual diet, activity, lifestyle, and attitude?
The biggest change is that I write down everything I eat and I have upped my exercise. Understanding proper nutrition has never been a real problem for me, but I have not always practiced what I know to be right. I travel a lot for work - probably 70% of my time - and I have had to learn to do things on the road that help me on both the nutrition and exercise fronts. Because I eat out a lot I have had to make changes in what I order and can no longer look at a meal out as a splurge because it was making me fat.
I order sauces and dressings on the side, ask the waitress to have my meals prepared with less oil, and I eat chicken and veggies and stay away from those that are prepared with added calories like cheese or sauce mixed in. I also exercise six days a week even when I am traveling. I book hotels that have fitness centers in them and take my work out clothes. I have also joined a new gym that has some really fun classes and spend a lot of my leisure time there. I no longer use my disease as an excuse to not exercise. I have found that even on my days if I get moving it relieves the pain and my fatigue is no longer a problem.
I have begun training for a half marathon, but I also cycle. If I find that my knees are hurting, then I ride my bike instead. I also practice yoga regularly and lift weights. My health club has rock wall that I love to climb. The yoga, weight training and rock climbing have all helped to build muscles, and in turn has helped ease pressure on my joints.
4. How did Calorie Count help you to lose weight?
I love this site!! It is the most convenient method I have found to track my calories for food intake and exercise. I tag all the things I eat on a regular basis so I don't have to reinvent the wheel, and it allows me to enter recipes that I make so I don't have to calculate them individually. With exercise I have started wearing a heart rate monitor which tracks the calories I am burning and CC lets me enter that amount and keeps a log of my exercise progress.
5. What was most challenging about losing weight?
Flares from RA and traveling are by far the hardest part. When I get out on the road, traveling is grueling and it can cause me to feel badly from the RA. There are a lot of times I am exhausted, and I just want to order something bad from room service and go to bed. I have learned though that best medicine is to hop on the treadmill or a stationary bike. There is a sense of euphoria you feel after working out. Some of the fitness facilities on the road are not great, so trying to exercise there can be tough. Since I am one of those people that needs to have fun exercising in order to stay motivated I have found a few little tricks that help me a lot. For example. finding something cool to do while I am on the road like biking a neat trail or park (most towns have bike shops you can rent a road or mountain bike for the day), or running an interesting route. Sometimes none of these options are available or I don't always have the time, so I have to persevere in the bad gym using headphones and good music.
6. How long did it take you to see results?
I think it took about 30 pounds for others to start saying anything to me, but I began noticing differences after about 10 pounds. The interesting thing for me though is that my journey is no longer about weight loss, but about fitness. I love working out now. I think about it, plan my week around classes, practice yoga moves at home and have made new friends who like to do active things with me.
7. When did you realize that you were a success?
I realized I was success when I went to my in-laws for a family reunion and I took the initiative to make sure I was going to be able to eat healthy even though I splurged on some fattening foods. I made a plan, went to the store and bought healthy snacks and only ate the bad stuff that I really wanted. In the past I would have used this as an opportunity to pig out. I also set aside time to exercise every day and took the family to mountain bike in the canyon. I have a new lifestyle. This is not a diet anymore.
8. How do you prevent relapse?
I plan ahead. I keep healthy foods around and eat 5 or 6 times a day. I make sure I fuel up before and after workouts and I never let myself get too hungry. I have found fun exercises to do that keep me motivated.
9. How has your life changed now that you've lost weight?
I feel GREAT. I have more energy than I have had in years. I am happy and my stress level is so much lower than it used to be.
10. What five tips do you have for other dieters?
- Don't try to fix everything at once. I started with weight loss and I didn't give up everything I loved.
- Make healthy alternatives for many foods that you love.
- Start moving, but realize you have limitations. If you haven't
exercised in 10 years don't expect to be able to run for 30 minutes on
a treadmill or outside like you did in high school and don't beat yourself up for it. - Exercise should be something you look forward to, not something you dread. Make it fun.
- Stay strong and know that the more you work towards fitness the better you will feel.
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Comments
I also was diagnosed with RA two years ago. Your story is very inspiring and similar to mine. Thanks to Calorie Counts I have also lost 30 pounds to date and am encouraged to find new ways to find the fun in my exercise routine! Keep it up girl!
Great story! I especially found #6 to be motivational. My BFF and I are currently on this journey together and just this morning we were discussing others noticing the weight loss. It's nice to know that others wonder the same thing.
You are a tenacious woman and an inspiration to many. I love hearing testimonies of those who walk in the truth and then take responsibility and action to change what isn't healthy for their life. Thank you for sharing. May your journey of Healthy Living continue and only get better.
This really makes sense to me. I'm finding it has taken a long time to make real changes. Getting started had discouraging effects that I'm still working through -- weight gain when I started exercising, obsession about food and constant hunger when I started counting calories, fatigue when I cut cals from my usual level. Its great to have the longer term perspective here.
Thinking of exercise as a psychological tool that you've come to depend on is extremely helpful. So is hearing about how you have worked it into your travel even when conditions aren't optimal. I'm inspired by your consistency and common sense approach! Congratulations on your wonderful success --
That is great!! I am doing things the doctor told me I wouldn't be able to do. Congrats on your weight loss. Don't you feel so much better!? I do too.![]()
I had a Basal Resting Metabolic test done at my health club for $99. It told me how many calories I burn just to run my body. In other words if I never got out of bed or moved all day long how many calories would it take to keep me breathing and my heart pumping. I discuovered that I was actually burning more than I thought so when I was cutting calories I was cutting too much. If you are feeling really weak, you might think about adding an additional 100 calories and see if you can continue to loose weight.
I also burn about 500 calories or more on a workout day, but on those days I only add an additional 300 calories regardless and I try to add most of the calories right before and right after I work out so they are burning off.
Hang in there. The hardest part is getting started. I finally went to nutritionist for a couple of sessions so that I could figure out how to eat on workout days. Good luck! I know you will do well.
Your story is truly inspiring to us all. Congratulations, God bless you. It's new lifestyle.
hi Melinda ~
Like you, I have had more success adding more calories to my daily intake in order to keep losing ~ 24 lbs so far, 71 to go ~ altho' I've never had a basal reading done (I should look into that!).
I did discover, through trial & error however, that when I eat 1200 or so a day, with the usual exercises I am doing (mostly treadmill & alot of extra walking) I maintain or lose very little. When I eat 1400-1450 or so, I lose much faster! ![]()
I guess I am still in the *losing weight* mentality, but getting more fit (and FITTING into a smaller size, lol) is keeping me motivated...so I guess it all works hand in hand, doesn't it? At least, it is all happening @ the same time!
I wish you continued success on your journey & I hope to be able to come back to this section of CC in about a year to post my own success story...I would love to be an inspiration to others the way you & the other posters have been to me!!
I was also diagnosed with RA about a year and a half ago, at the early age of 22. Thank you for sharing your story!
Congratulations Melinda and best wishes for continuing your choice of healthy living.
Carmencita 1 - I know you are going to do great! Finding the right calorie mix makes such a huge difference. If you are starving you will finally give in because your body needs the food. The trick is to cut enough to lose without cutting so much that you lose control!
Thanks for sharing your story! As someone who has traveled on biz quite a bit, I wanted to mention something I didn’t see in your story. You know the fitness centers sometimes suck. But do you ever try the free exercise programs they have on the pay-per-view services in most hotels now?
Sometimes I just don’t have the energy to change, be seen by other people, etc, and you can throw a towel on the floor (some hotels even have yoga mats in the closet), do a yoga class, abs workout, whatever, and take a long hot bath, all for free right in your room.
Hope you don't mind the tip!
Oh, and forgot to add - I have Ankylosing Spondylitis, another auto-immune disease that affects the joints. So I feel your pain - quite literally - and I'm doubly impressed by your will to move!
Great idea about the exercise tv. I have actually thought about buying a yoga towel (like a mat, but foldable like a towel with little beads that help with slipping) and carrying it with me. I have a yoga program on my iphone too in a pinch. Now that I am running and during the week go for time not mileage I can exercise anywhere. You are right a lot of the gyms are kind of sucky and sometimes you don't have a choice.
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