I need some encouragement!

I am getting married in less than 2 weeks and this weekend i went to try on lingerie and I am so upset now. I have lost 13 pounds but still have another 20 to go. I looked horrible in everything. HELP!

congrats on loosing 13 pounds!

i would love to tell you that you could lose the other 20 before your wedding, but i would most likely be lying.

so with that in mind, think about it...would you be happier loosing 3-4 pounds before your wedding, and knowing that you worked hard and are building a sustainable lifestyle and will probably met your goal sometime this spring if you stick with it?

or would you be happier giving up on the last twenty if you can't make it by your wedding?

it's up to you! 

True, thanks.  I'm not giving up

right on!

and enjoy your wedding! 

I agree. As long as you buy items that fit you now, and not your 20 lbs-from-now self, I'm guessing you are going to still feel great. And just think, it gives you another shopping experience to look forward to this spring when you do hit your goal weight! This is YOUR day.. don't let a few lbs ruin it for you... And Congratulation on getting married :)

Congrats on both the 13 lb loss and the marriage.

Apparently you are loved exactly how you are so don't stress over a few lbs

Enjoy your day and get back on track as soon as you can to shed the rest.  It's not a big deal!  I bet you'll look beautiful!

...and don't forget, Your Fiance loves you for YOU, not the size on your shirt tag :)

 I'm sure something sexy in your current size will put a smile on his face on your wedding night!

Have Fun & Congrats!!

I agree with the other posters.  Congrats on your weightloss!  When I got married (almost 2 years ago), I had been going to a gym loyally for 10 months before my wedding, but with all the stress of wedding planning, I didn't lose anything.  Then, after the wedding when things calmed down, I lost almost 50 pounds in 7 months!  Your soon-to-be husband loves you for who you are.  Remember, he loved you when you were 13 pounds heavier too!  :)  And after the wedding stress is over, I know those last 20 pounds will come right off!  (It's amazing what stress does to our bodies).

Woohooo...congratulations.  Remember...sexy things are wonderful for your wedding night but stressing over how you look in it is rather futile!!  It'll look beautiful on the hotel room floor! :)

weddings are so stressful (mine was horrible!! i put on 10 pounds before mine!!) try to balance your stress hormone with a vitamin B supplement, it will help your body deal with stress, continue to metabolize, and help with anxiety, in turn you will be more relaxed, your body will function better and you shouldn't put on anymore weight and may even lose. If you want an awsome one, let me know i have a great suggestion!!

good lukc and remember, this is supposed to be a happy time, enjoy yourself and dont' worry about anything else!!