Young Calorie Counters

Okay so my best guy friend and I have been flirting for the past month or so. He knows that I like him, and I had the idea he liked me. Two weeks ago, we went to brunch together and he got upset when i didnt kiss him goodbye (he told me so later) so i THOUGHT that meant he liked me. Since wednesday we had plans to hang out saturday night, just the two of us. We'd talk online and he'd be like "im so excited for saturday". Saturday night rolls around, no call/i.m/email NOTHING. Just completely blew me off. He wasnt online for the rest of the weekend, or so i thought. I was livid. Gave him a bit of the cold shoulder this morning, but it was horrible. I found out, HE BLOCKED ME on aim. OUT OF FRICKEN NO WHERE! and won't talk to me thru facebook.

What's going on? Anybody notice something that i didnt? I NEED HELP

aaagh. i hate boys :/

Wow, uhm, that DOES suck.


Maybe he heard something from a friend about you?

I mean it obviously sounds like he likes you so something weird must've happened.


It doesn't sound like he's into another girl...

EXACTLY

aaargh, all i'm wondering, is if i should confront him in person about it?

Did he think you would contact him about Saturday? Maybe he thinks you sloughed him off and he blocked you as retaliation. I would ask him about it. He owes you an explanation.

Keep in mind that he may have a reason that he believes gave him cause. Listen to why then decide for yourself. You'll know when you talk to him.

If he doesn't give you an explanation then move on.

Seems he's acting rather immaturely.

Good luck to you!

How close are you guys? Like if your super-good friends, and hang out often and talk alot, you should definitly be upfront and ask him whats going on. Be sure not to accuse him of anything you can't prove though, because people go on the offensive!

If you are not really that close, you should just leave it and have an amazing time with other boys. He'll come crawling back eventually (believe me, they always do) and you'll be the cool,carefree chick who doesn't let anything phase her.

Good luck to you! Boys can be really stupid sometimes, but they are usually worth it!

He probably just freaked. Guys do that. A lot.

I would just confront him and tell him that you don't know what you did.  Be honest.  If he is really a good friend he will talk about it with you.  Tell him that you value his friendship and was really looking forward to spending time with him and let him know softly that your feelings were hurt.  Hopefully he will open up to you and explain.  

I think either he got cold feet about a romantic encounter with you and chickened out. Or maybe he was afraid to loose you as a friend if something went wrong.  Who knows men don't always tell us what's on their minds.....  We are very open as women but men are not usually that way. 

Good luck!

Well i DID confront him, this is how the conversation went

-him walking past me into his homeroom- hey *sheepish grin*

me: you're really mean, you know that?

him: what did i do?

me: well you completely blew me off, are avoiding me, and blocked me on aim. whats going on?

him: well my phone died *sheepish grin*, it really did! and i didnt have my car.

-didnt answer to why he was avoiding me-

me: so why did you block me?

him: because you always bother me when im doing my homework

OKAY, seriously, he would FLIRT with me when i i.m.ed him when he was doing his homework, not tell me to stop talking to him. and the blocking was completely random, it happened like two days before we were supposed to go out

he's online but still has me blocked! i'm so confused, and upset because i reeeeally like this guy

:/

Sounds like a jackass. There are guys out there that aren't, you know. Don't waste your time.

Why is he on the computer if he's doing his homework?

I say find a new guy to like.