Are older guys any good?

...In bed ?

At what age do men start to lose their "umph" ?

*just curious, with the demographic on this site, i thought some would know*

It's been my experience that men do get better with age in the bedroom. My previous BF was 34 years older than me and my current BF is 28 years older and both perform much better than men around my age. I couldn't even imagine going back to younger men.

with younger men its ALL about them, with an older man, its more about you.

Original Post by kateduttongillett:

with younger men its ALL about them, with an older man, its more about you.

 Exactly!!! With my expierences..the older guys are more focused on pleasing you, while with guys my age, they are more about a quick *excuse me on this* f&^* than anything else...it's get off or get out. Hell they don't even care if you "O" they just want to get off, and they could care less who with.

When I was with the guy who was much older than me, it was all about getting me there and he knew EXACTLY what he was doing and was passionate, when I was with a guy my own age, it was just "do this, do that" plus he didn't know what he was doing, and was sloppy and just not good at all and was just going through the motions.