Online dating websites

What should I do now? A former boss has sent me an email inviation to join an online dating website and he wants to be my friend on that dating website.http://dating.desktopdating.net/

what does that mean? 

what should I do now? 

I am surprised because the man is married.

is he crazy? I just can't believe this.

I want to add that I don't even have an account there and I don't plan to.

Ignore, ignore, ignore! Creepy.

Original Post by april_bride:

Ignore, ignore, ignore! Creepy.

This

I am just pissed off. he has my personal email address becasue back in 2007, he was my boss and I had to work a lot from home so he knew my personal email address. 

now,I have a new boss and he was transfered to Italy but he still has strong connections in the company. 

I still get emails from him till now. I don't understand this.

Yep guys who pull this kind of stuff are annoying as hell.  I've been dealing with something stupid like this too, and I'm freakin' 47!  I'm too old for that ****.  Can you change your email address?

no. I can't change my email address. I have had this address for several years and it is hard to change it now. 

I was thinking that I should email him back, asking him what the hell is he doing? and why does he send me these emails? I can put him in trouble if I print that email out and send it to a higher authority.but he has got 4 beautiful girls and a good wife:(

maybe I will just ignore it. :(

Asking him what he is doing, and why, will not help anything. It will just further open the door to drama that you don't want. Well, unless you do want that drama! Just my opinion, if you want to shut the door on this nutjob, then just ignore the email.

Original Post by april_bride:

Asking him what he is doing, and why, will not help anything. It will just further open the door to drama that you don't want. Well, unless you do want that drama! Just my opinion, if you want to shut the door on this nutjob, then just ignore the email.

This again.  Drama sucks.  Ignore it.

yeh i agree too. dont reply, pretend u didnt receive it and block his email!

if he's ur ex-boss and wont need to send you emails regarding work anymore then there's no reason not to block him.

ok, guys. Thanks. I will just ignore it.

Can you block his emails so they go into your junk mail and you never see them?  I had an ex who was stalking me via email and another friend of mine did that for me.  I have no idea how but I never saw an email from him again.

yeh u can! its great when there's a spammer or annoying person who floods ur email.

all u do on hotmail is add them to ur 'block' list, and their emails wont even go to ur junk... they just never reach ur email!

IGNORE IT!  BLock it!   If he persists or takes it to another level,  take it to HR. Don't let him get away with it.  I had a boss like that - when I confronted him with the HR threat, he backed down.

Original Post by safina1:

What should I do now? A former boss has sent me an email inviation to join an online dating website and he wants to be my friend on that dating website.http://dating.desktopdating.net/

what does that mean? 

what should I do now? 

I am surprised because the man is married.

is he crazy? I just can't believe this.

I want to add that I don't even have an account there and I don't plan to.

 Ignore it. You don't owe him an explanation.

Ignore it...no explanation is necessary.

How personal was the e-mail? It could have been that when he signed up the site sent spam to everyone on his contacts list.

One can but hope that's what happened, cause you know his wife is on that list. hee hee.

ha! good one =)

Original Post by floggingsully:

How personal was the e-mail? It could have been that when he signed up the site sent spam to everyone on his contacts list.

OMG. he must be in trouble now because his contact list has so many people from work and his bosses too LOL

but why did he sign up in the first place?

so if I join a dating website, will everyone in my contact list know????