why are people so mean

I was just on this other site and I wasn't on there 5 minutes and I got told that I looked like a man, bull dog and the coca cola polar bear.  Feel like crying but then they win.  Be honest look at my picture and tell me if you guys think I look like a man in drag.  Please be Honest!

Geez!  I don't think so at all!!

Why would they say that? What kind of a website was it??

WHAT? Oh no, that is wrong, you DO NOT look awful!!!!! I like that picture!

I like your outfit and I am way jealous of your tan!

Noooo, not at all.
They're just jealous, let them talk!
Don't believe a word they are saying.
Not worth your time, believe me.

You are a beautiful woman. Never take to heart what jerks say... know that you are wonderfully made and a delight.

holy *moley*. i am so mad!!!!!

some people just get off on being totally ignorant assholes and i don't know why. Those arrogant bastards..... argh!!!!

Shanna, you have gorgeous almond-shaped eyes, a cute button nose and a sweet smile.

i am also curious, what site was this??!???

thanks.....It was a website called black planet i have been on it for a long time but don't chat very often and when i entered the chat room they just tore me to pieces.......

thanks seraph--dont take this bad at all cause i mean it in a good way but coming from you it means alot....thanks

i think i just sat there half the time with my mouth opened just reading the stuff they were saying I mean I hadnt even asid anything in the room yet....must just not be my day lol

Why would people do that, unless they were just jealous, seraph is totally right!

lol... i think seraph will know what you mean honey, we all know that seraph tells it like it is and doesn't sugarcoat so a compliment from her certainly is genuine :)

you have GOT to be effin' kidding me.

(psst, jayd, LANGUAGE!)

what is WRONG with people? seems like everyone's gotta tear someone down. Now,I'm as mean as the next meanie, but seriously? the coca-cola polar bear? wooo..... um, yeah. sure. And I look like McGruff, the crime dog.  LEt's start a late-night cartoon show, baby!

no way

and your little girls are beautiful too!

don't let dumb people have any power over your emotions! whatever you do... don't do that.

Hi Shanna,

I don't think you look like a man at all.  You have very strong, sexy  eyes, I'm so jealous!

Don't listen to what those other people say, it sounds like they were just trying to be hateful.  I know I question myself sometimes when people make comments, but when I think about it, who cares what those people think?  I think I look cute, and my opinion matters more to me than some strangers.  Just remind yourself you're a hot mama and tell those other people to stuff it.

sorry, saroful... i'm usually more careful, but that really set me off! oops! *sheepish smile*

God made you exactly how HE wanted you and that is all that matters. NEVER listen to other's mean comments, what they think does not matter at all!

*giggles at nomoreexcuse* only one girl little one is a boy he he

Oh, yes, because the fact that you have HUGE.. TRACTS OF LAND.. makes you look like a woman :p

What the frell ever :p

You do not look like a man :p They're just a$$h0l3s :p

Hurtful comments come from hurtful people.  Anything that comes from an individual like that means absolutely nothing.  You don't need that negativity in your life.  You are gorgeous and don't ever forget it!  :-)

you know the bulldog thing and the polar bear thing didn't bother me so much but the man thing did.....I have always had really broad shoulders and I am one of those girls who has to wax her lip from time to time (lovingly inherited from grandma)....and I have always hated both of those things about me.......it was like they called me on all my insecurities and i was just thinking damn how did they know! lol thanks for all the nice things you guys have said...i needed some postive reinforcement!

I won't ;)  I'm not that bad. :)
Those comments were totally uncalled for, way too harsh, and not true.
They are just trying to make themselves feel better by putting you down, that's their problem not yours. 
I maybe blunt, but I do have a heart.

no prob, jay, just save it for your journal :)

HK, thanks for the laugh, it's been a frustrating morning!