We have a pissed sista here.. Jeans that don't fit.. Wrong CUT.

Ok, I think I am so mad that I can just run over every jeans co. I mean really, get the cut right. Get the hips wide enough so wide loads can get in to them.. A 18 1/2 COME on.. Give me a break. WHAT in the hell do that mean. I wear 18 and they are loose, but these are not even going past my BUTT... NOT only that. I love the STYLE OF THE JEANS. You know what that got me thinking now. It is time to pump this diet thing up. I want to wear them jeans. I want to say. They are an 18 and a half, they are cut wrong, but I am really a size 12-14 when I get into them. I mean really. I really didn't think about how these jeans being cut wrong for the HIPS would drive me nuts.

I told my mom.. Me and them jeans and the hips are going to war. I am so PISSED.. She is laughing her butt off, and i am steaming in tears.

But you know what. I am going to let this motivate me. Them jeans are not going to beat me. Saying. HAHAHA you can't wear us. No WAY.. I am going to get into them.

Arizona and the wrong cut jeans.. I am so mad.. LOL.. I need a break from being mad. I really do. Ok. I am going to relax so I can yell at the world when the time is right.

:( Jeans That I love CUT WRONG.. Or are they right and it is just me. Dammit to hell..

I am just venting.

Lynn

that's fine, lynn, go ahead and vent!  you have so much important stuff on your mind, but sometimes it's the little things that put us "over the top." i don't mean that spending money on clothes that don't fit is a little thing, but it's just one more straw before you get to the one that "breaks the camel's back."  we can all relate to having a day like you are having right now!

Lynn, I so know what you mean.  I have been wearing baggy 14s for months now.  So baggy that they fall below my waist.  My daughters made me go shoppping for new ones.  I hate shopping, completely hate it.  Nothing ever fits or is made for women.  I don't needs shirts cut to my naval.  Please can I have something comfortable, cute and with taste.  Sorry that is another rant altogehter.  So we go to the store and I try on a 12.  Cool it fits.  We get back to the shelf and I see I different color I like better.  I wear Gloria Vanderbelt's only.  So I hold the two pairs up together, because I know the cut problem.  They match.  I purchaes a blue jean and a black pair.  Get home and the next monring I ready to strutt my stuff.  But wait the blue jeans will not pass by hips.  Damn.  The black pair I can get on but forget zipping.  So I am stuck back in my baggy pants that look awful on.  I refuse to return the ones I purchased out of some sort of inneer war.  So they sit there for weeks.  One day I feel good about myself.  Mind you the scale has not gone down but I feel good.  I try on the black pair again.  Wow they fit.  I wore them and was a little uncomfortable because they were not baggy.  My daughters and husband said they looked great.  But silly me I am back to wearing the baggy 14's because I am afraid of something that actually fits. Maybe in another week I will try them again!

So you are not alone.  We  all have evil pants!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I called my girl friend, and she said. It is time to up your game on you diet. So she is going to help me plan my meal week. SHE is good at that.

She said. Them last 40 pounds just have you in a rut. AND she is right. The wedding day. The wedding ring. The house... The car.. The van that I must get a motor for. The this and that.. Oh Crap..

I am in a world of hurt and mess. My boyfriend gets up set when I stress. He is yelling. YOU are hurting your self. Stop BITCHING. OK.. HOW can i? SO I let him Have it. I said if it was not about the wedding the house, the car and the other mess I am facing I will still  be on track. Then I said, Maybe we need to call this thing off. Then he said. NO.. IF I have to buy all your food and make sure you work out 4 times a week I will..

Ok. I am losing it. TOO much stress..

Remember you are going to start breathing.   AHHH thats better.

It is so wonderful you have such a good friend that will come over and help you plan your meals.  Then do take your guy up on his offer to help.  Create the shopping list of things you need and let him go to the store.  You can avoid temptation that way.  Also one less chore for you to do. 

Chin up, by having the feelings you are having you are not giving in you are fighting back.  Can you send me so of that fight?  I don't feel it this week.  Must be Mothers Day and having to spend the day with very thin relatives.  Always gets me down.  But I know the next time they see me I will be even healthier.  Heck last time they saw me I was 20 pounds heavier. 

OK GO BREATHEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! Take care sweetie!

Tammy :)

Them evil Jean Co. My friend Eve told me that she got a few pair of jeans last week, and she said that they didn't even go past her butt. She said that thin in crap is messing with her big time. SHE was like. What about the hip girls? We are losing weight, but we are not bean poles. SHE said she didn't take them back either. SHE said to me.. Her and them 14's are going to war. Tommy jeans is what they are. I got a pair of 16 Tommy jeans I paid good money for, and I can't wear them. I got past that. But what pissed me off was that.. I wear 16 I have 16 i wear, is wal mart the only ones cutting the jeans right.

Tammy thanks, Girl you just don't know what the hell I am facing here. I am Going nuts yes. AND I am relaxed... Ok.. Relax let it go relax let it go.

Ok I can't give him a shopping list. HE is going to pay for the foods I need. That comes to 100 and something a week.

I give him a LIST. HE will come back with CHIPS. LOL.. Just a joke to relax. No! He can't shop for me. If I have a list down I can fight that temptation thing. I can Get what is on my list and out in 30 mins. I power shop.

My best friend is still trying to learn how to shop like me. LOL

3 kids in the store with you. You have to learn how to master the art of getting in and out with out them yelling. I want a toy.. Them supper wal marts.. LOL.

But me and these hips are going to war. I am going to call Connie the Trainer and tell her. I need a good hip program I can do 3 times a week. He had one for me. But it was to stress full for the muscles. I know I can do this. I think and I know I can.

When I read you post I think I can see a smile on you face.  Yeah!

I am past the little ones phase.  My girls are going to be 17 and 21 in the next couple of months.  Man time flys. 

You will come out on the other side of this after the wedding and it will be a memory. 

Have a wonderful day.  I am waiting for my husband to get home to so we can begin making our stuffed cabbages for tomorrow.  I figure it will take us at least 5 hours.  So in that time I know I will not eat anything bad for me.  Can't possibliy eat and cook, and if I can I don't want to know. 

Better get a small work out in before he gets home.

Tammy :)

I'm sticking with WalMart jeans until I get down to the weight I want to be. Then I'm going to throw out ALL OF THE FAT JEANS. Last time I hung on to these and it was just so easy to put them on when I started to gain weight.

Shopping for clothes can be so exasperating.

I donated a bunch of my old jeans and other cloths when I grew out of
them.   Now that I'm working in the right direction, I wish I
could have them back!   Shopping for jeans is the absolute worst.
  I know what brands I like, but even then you have to find the
right cut or you get this exact situation.   Just a few weekends
ago I had this same problem.  I went into the dressing room with 4
pairs of jeans.  All the same size, all the same brand, but
different cuts.   I was able to pull up one pair and the rest was
a joke.  Seems my thighs and hips weren't meant to go into many
jeans.   Then if I get misses sizes everything will fit EXCEPT the
hips and I feel like I have gigantic pockets.  So I think I have
to stay with odd number sizes rather than even number sizes. 
Either way, you just can't win.