Possible E-mail Buddy? =)

Aloha everyone,

Ok, so... I have no friends. The only friend I have is my boyfriend, who is probably cheating on me because I don't fit the size 2 his ex girlfriend fits, or because I'm not slim and tight like Jlo and Shakira. The only other "friends" I have are so withdrawn from me, I don't even know if it's appropriate to call them my friends.

I'm looking for someone that wouldn't mind an e-mail relationship. Someone who can keep me motivated and someone who I can motivate in return to reach their goals as well as mine. Hopefully someone that will be an actual FRIEND and not JUST someone I email.

I'm hoping for someone that's close to my area so that maybe we could meet sometime, but if not, I'm OK with email.

I'm 20 years old, female, 6'1" 300 pounds with about 100 pounds to lose and currently residing in the state of Oregon.

 I don't care about your age, gender, sexuality, or anything else, as long as you're decent, motivating, and most of all, a good and dedicated friend. =)

Love and Alojahz,
Ihilani
You can either post here or e-mail me through CC!

I suggest you join in on one of the many challenges in the weight loss or games forums. You can meet allot of people that way.
Jeff

I think you should use the journal on here and then ask for journal friends. A lot of us write in our journals daily or pretty frequently and make it available for everyone to read and reply and such.

I know that having friends on here who are reading my stuff and by reading theirs makes me feel like i have something to prove and keeps me motivated.

I am 22 lbs down in a month and its all thanks to this site and the lovely people who keep me encouraged and motivated.

~B

Hey I'd be willing to be your email buddy..sure I'm 17 and you're 20...but if you want I can be your friend.

I would love to be your friend! all of mine are skinny mini's that can eat whatever the heck they want and not gain an ounce! It would be great to have someone to talk to that is in the same boat as me.

I am 21, live in MI and have 110lbs left to lose (lost 10 already!!!) feel free to send me an email or IM me, i believe this contact info can be found on my profile. I do tend to be online in the evenings, since i really shouldn't be surfing the web while at work....

good luck to you, hopefully i'll hear from you!

-Alyson

Me too! All my friends are itty and it drives me nuts.

I'm 22 5'9" and I have about 90 pounds left to lose (lost 20 already). I live on the other side of the country though.  =)

Even if you don't want to do email, you can just create a forum like this one and we can all just chit chat on here. (Email is fine as well)

Hey there! I'm Malakai, I'm twenty years old also and would LOVE to be your friend! I'm in Florida..anyway email me through here if you'd like to be friends! I would email you but I'm new to this site and have no idea how too haha. That goes for anyone else on here too! I love talking to people :)

-Malakai

Aloha,

I'm sorry to hear about your situation; seems like you SO is one of the reasons why you feel so down.  Sounds like you've made some friends already but count me in.  I'm 28 and live in CA, I don't have much weight to loose but want to make a life changing routine.  I weigh 136lbs right now and want to get down to my old 118lb which is my comfortable weight since I'm 5'4'. 

I'm seriously lacking the motivation too, maybe we can help each other out.  I currently don't have any excusses on why i'm not motivated...I have the time to work out in the morning AND in the evening and in the morning I'm way TOO tired and rather sleep longer and in the evenings I'm also too tired from work.  I guess I'm just lazy.

I am interested though on having a healthy life all together; of course I like the fact that i look good leaner and fit but most of all I want to be healthy.

How about you?  What are your challenges?

email buddy...what is that. lol  just add someone as a friend on here.  no reason to ask for friends.  nike didnt ask!  they said " just do it "

lol...smart a$$, I like that!

O you know it :P

better then a...dumb a$$? right? lol

ha ha ha ha (vudoo) you are too funny! Your absolutely right!! What's your story? trying to loose weight too?

I was for this important trip but things (like always) never pan out the way you plan it lol.  As fate my have it, another trip came up so its all good.  Right now im just doing whatever until my trip (my week off working out) then ill be working on strength and mass gain.  You can check my profile for more :P

And whats your story? (besides loosing weight)

Hey Girl are you still around? i am also from Oregon and would love a email buddy?