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The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
19:48 (UTC)
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I have 12 piercings (all in various parts of my ear) and several scars from an ACL replacement.

And on small scar on my calf from a very druken, cheese cutting incident
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
19:08 (UTC)
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Afternoon Rache
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
19:07 (UTC)
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Do you want me to help you find it Char?
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
17:50 (UTC)
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I get absolutely irrational about 4 days before until about 4 days in.  I want to cry all of the time.  Nothing bf does is right and he hears about it.  I get really depressed and nothing makes me happy.  I know it happens and I've tried to control myself, but it just doesn't work.  Bf knows and understands because he has his moments too.  I'm planning on going to a doc to figure out if something is wrong because it wasn't always like this.
The Lounge How to deal with racists in the workplace? Aug 08 2007
17:34 (UTC)
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I like Nomo's idea too (I'm not motivated enough though).

If you take that route, maybe you could try recording them some how so you have audio proof that they are doing this.  And you could try and record your conversation with the higher ups just in case they try to pull something.
The Lounge How to deal with racists in the workplace? Aug 08 2007
17:32 (UTC)
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I have to say that if the owner's are racist, then you might have a problem. 

I know it isn't easy, but you can't let it get to you.  I grew up with all sorts of crap (grew up in a inter-racial lesbian household and I was in the severe minority at school, I'm white btw) and I finally just learned to ignore it.  I fought and argued and tried to persaude people, but ultimately it just caused me a lot of grief.

You just have to think, "are these people my friends?  Do I really care what they think about me or my fiance?"

If you really can't stand it, then you will probably have to get a different job.
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
17:26 (UTC)
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Hiya Rache
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
16:52 (UTC)
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I like my brain in the gutter too, life is much more interesting then.
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
16:42 (UTC)
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I know what you mean Lily, I can't keep up today because I have too much work to actually chat.
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
16:37 (UTC)
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I went to a festival that had chocolate covered cheesecake on a stick (yes, I had one and it was freaking delicious!)
The Lounge It's morning, morning yes indeed.... c-o-f-f-double-e... CHAT HK CHAT Aug 08 2007
15:07 (UTC)
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Does anyone watch "Bizarre Foods" with Andrew Zimmern on the travel channel?  After watching that show I believe that someone could be eating that.  They have deer panini sake over in Japan.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
21:30 (UTC)
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Bobbi, just take yourself to a gay bar.  There is nothing better in the world than gay guys because they always tell you that you are beautiful and make you laugh, but you don't have to worry about them wanting to sleep with you (basically the best of both worlds).
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
21:27 (UTC)
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Gyro meat is just ground up beef and lamb that formed into a certain shape.

bobbi, you should take yourself out!  A nice dinner, a movie, and a bottle of wine.  Why should he get to have all of the fun.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
21:19 (UTC)
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Oh, gyros!  damn, I getting hungry now. 

Gyros and guac with some chips.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
21:11 (UTC)
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Tostido alternative?!  Ok, you can't just say something like that and then not tell us what it is.

EDIT:  Posted this right as GH explained.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
20:07 (UTC)
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Afternoon folks . . . stupid work keeps getting in the way of the Chat.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
15:09 (UTC)
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Better watch it Kim, it is usually when you aren't looking when they seem to plop right into your lap.
The Lounge The Wonderful Thing About Chatters is Chatters Is Wonderful Things Aug 07 2007
14:43 (UTC)
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Morning everyone,

Rach, there are good guys out there.  The problem is there are a lot more jerks so it takes more time to find the good guys (and you usually get hurt in the process).
The Lounge Anyone from upstate NY? Aug 06 2007
21:17 (UTC)
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I live in Buffalo although I wasn't born here.  I'm not a huge fan, but I think that is because I'm used to a different type of city.  It doesn't help that I don't like snow.

It does have an amazing theater/art/music scene though.
The Lounge In the midnight hour she cried- "Chat, Chat, Chat" Aug 06 2007
20:54 (UTC)
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I do prefer without though (I don't really care too much) . . . that could be because most of the guys I've been with have been snipped.
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