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| The Lounge | how to move on from a break up? | Oct 12 2006 22:59 (UTC) |
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hmm....
OKAY! i SERIOUSLY love you all! thanks for the advice. i'm still trying to find that one "thing" that will keep me going and forget about him. one thing i know for sure is that.... things will be okay. i'm gonna survive this. what does kill me, makes me stronger right? thanks again! <3 |
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| The Lounge | if you were an animal | Sep 11 2006 01:39 (UTC) |
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i would be a butterfly
i would eat honey i would live where i want |
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| Weight Loss | special thanks regards... | Jun 19 2006 01:25 (UTC) |
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kangarookate- i don't know many guys, and when my ex bf broke up with me i only had comfort and understanding from my girls. i just wanted older and wiser advice from men/women.
i didn't wanna "broadcast" it. |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:25 (UTC) |
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hkellick-
why would u have broken up with me though? |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:22 (UTC) |
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chobe-
what makes u say he doesn't love me? |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:20 (UTC) |
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hkellick-
what makes u think he's not in love with me? if u met a girl that u were in love with at the age of 19 and thought she was the one, would u still wanna "experience" life a little longer and break up with her? but my ex bf doesn't wana a relationship with ANYONE other girl, he just wants to be alone. |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:17 (UTC) |
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finewine58-
so u broke up with her because u needed more space and couldn't take it no more? weren't u still in love with her though? why did u guys try to work things out? |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:02 (UTC) |
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kpearson-
did u ever find out why he wasn't ready to commit. he didn't wanna see other women either, SO WHY? SO BREAK UP? if u know why, please tell me. what is NOT ready mean? is it cause he doesn't love me no more? |
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| The Lounge | can't stop crying... ='( | Jun 16 2006 20:00 (UTC) |
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finewine58-
what makes a guy say he's not ready? i mean, he loves me and i love him, isn't that enough to stay together? do u htink he has fallen out of love, maybe thats why we broke up? what takes more than love? |
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| Weight Loss | Returning feelings of past eating disorder? | May 07 2006 19:25 (UTC) |
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Hi Checkmeout =)
i've been through all those 3 horrible stages, from bulimia to anorexia to binge eating, and back again. its really tough and no one understands it better than urself or those we go through it also. i guess it all begins with low self-esteem and the thought of how one person should not or doesn't not deserve to be alive. i was hospitalized when i was just 16-17 and weighing at 65Lbs. i got that low cuz i felt so unloved and didn't deserve anything in life. then i was discharge after 3 months, i went through recovery (mentally) and started eating more after all those times i deprived my body of food, it just wanted EVRYTHING! then i gained MORE up to a bmi of 23! most days i just wanna be thin, so maybe someone would care, but i know i'm being childish, but honestly, i feel so alone in a world full of people who may care about me. i dunno. but i'm getting better, losing slowly, fighting those EVIL thoughts. stay strong, talk to those u can depend on for support! stick with ur 1,200 cals a day and find a happy medium. when ur brain reminds u of not eating to lose a ton of weight, contradict it by telling ur brain that u gained a ton after that and FAST DIETS just won't work in the long run! sometimes i am SO desperate like what u are describing, and yes sometimes i fall for it and the cycle begins, thats what i'm still fighting, but i think i can only get better if i just loved myself and felt worth it. you know, even if it takes A MILLION years to lose that weight, in the end, you'll still have lost it, BUT if u follow thro that vicious cycle, you will only make urself feel worse and hated. i bet u are beautiful just the way u are, and no number on the scale can EVER deny that! don't forget that! surround urself with people who loves you, and NEVER listen to anyone who has something bad to say about urself, cuz U ARE BETTER THAN THAT! |
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| Weight Loss | anyone in their 100's?? | Apr 27 2006 02:03 (UTC) |
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neeners-
i am 110 pounds! but i am TINY. my bmi is about 23? |
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| Weight Loss | letting you guys know about my progress | Apr 27 2006 02:00 (UTC) |
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all I gotta say is,
WHOOOPPPPPEEEEEE! |
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| Weight Loss | 23 minutes! | Apr 27 2006 01:57 (UTC) |
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you know what girl? if u DO have a bad day, i'm sure you are gonna get right up again and kick ass!
why? good question, BECAUSE you LOVE and will always remmeber this awesome on top of the world feeling =) |
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| Weight Loss | Can 1 day really kill your diet??? | Apr 26 2006 12:15 (UTC) |
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ahhhhhhhhh!! i'm TOO late, but HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!! =)
it sounds like u had a goood time =) and no i don't think it'll kill ur diet. the body works in such mysterious ways, if u can back on track today, it wouldn't even matter than u ate more yesterday. am i making sense? lol |
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| Weight Loss | Bleck! | Apr 26 2006 12:13 (UTC) |
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| i'm chinese, so believe me when i say ALL chinese food is fattening, EXCEPT if u boil and steam. stir fry are very dangerous and SO high cal! | |||
| Weight Loss | Fell off the wagon *hard* | Apr 26 2006 12:11 (UTC) |
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i know how it feels, i was in ur shoes for MORE than a few weeks, more like a year. one thing i've learned is take baby steps!
don't push urself too hard or set goals u think u may not reach. its a lot of pressure on u and hard to start new again. take it easy =) |
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| Weight Loss | Question | Apr 26 2006 12:09 (UTC) |
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haha walk away...
by now, you prolly weighed urself already in the morning! all i can say is, HOPE YOU ARE NOT DISAPPOINTED!=) |
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| Weight Loss | I did it!!!! | Apr 26 2006 12:07 (UTC) |
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awww!! i'm sooo happpy for ya!
see it CAN happen =) |
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| Weight Loss | Confused - inches vs weight | Apr 26 2006 12:06 (UTC) |
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| its a whole lot better just to measure urself when u feel like you should have lost a lot more weight on ur scale. i've lost 5 lbs too, but 2.5 inches off my waist and hips. i guess when u workout, it add muscle BUT you are DEFINTELY losing fat! | |||
| Weight Loss | Healthy weight loss after an eating disorder.?.? | Apr 24 2006 16:16 (UTC) |
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isusiubeste, i'm' feeling you girl! i know how "scary" it is to eat MORE than u want, but i dunno if u are diagnosed with an eating disorder or not, but maybe u wanna be more careful with ur eating habits, just in case.
stay strong and don't ever let food control you. i'm still fighting my ED everyday, i've lost a lot while having and struggling with it at worse times. i missed prom cuz i thought i was too fat to wear a dress. PROM MAN! geez come on, i wish i could turn back time! u are more than perfect like this, a few pounds won't hurt in the LONG RUN, it seems tough now, but u'd look more curvier =) |
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