I've been over weight for as long as I can remember, although I wasn't always that way.  Unlike my first husband, my husband now doesn't care about my weight and just wants me to be happy.  I am happy, but I've finally reached a point in my life that I have taken care of other people for so long, I just want to take care of myself for a change.  My goal is to become healthier, and finally lose the weight I've been dragging around for so many years.