|The Lounge||Relationship Advice Needed- I'm lost||Sep 13 2009
From what I can make out I am the same age as him.
It maybe that he hasn't lived on his own long enough to understand what reponsibility is. I mean I was the same when I was with my parents but living the last 4 years on my own going through University just gets you into a routine and very used to cleaning up.
It seems like hes just had someone always there to clean up after him from his parents and now you. It must be really hard with someone you love especially but from his reaction it doesn't seem like anything will change and it will get into a rutt where you do everything and have an argument over it from time to time. Just stick to your guns and keep telling him although if I was in a similar situation I would just start throwing all of his stuff out he doesn't clean up and if he didn't like it...tough.
The whole 9-5 job really is not an excuse. My mother was away a lot studying when I grew up and my dad had a 9-5 job alternating with nights each week and managed to pick both me and my sister up, cook for us, clean and then look after my mother even on weekends.
In this sort of situation if you let him keep doing it, it will become partly your fault for letting him get away with it in the first place and then it will just turn sour untill something drastic happens.
I really can feel for you but under no circumstances should you let him keep getting away with it. If it annoys him and makes him angry...tough **** because he should be pulling his weight.
|The Lounge||"Tonight I wanna cry"||Sep 03 2009
I get like that sometimes.
Just my friends last year were away and I was on my own going absolutely mad although in that kind of Job it can get that way now and again.
The way I get through it is by doing something absolutely unexpected and unusual by anyones standard.
Just get up and start dancing and embrace eccentricity.
Sure people will think you are a freak but at least you are the one smiling.
|Weight Loss||What is YOUR "achilles' heel"?||Sep 03 2009
Literally achilles tendonitis.
I know it's not really a temptation and frankly I don't have any.
I found it very easy to eat healthily and cut all snack foods, sugars, fizzy drinks and what not out of my diet but since I have started I love to excersise to help me but every 2-3 weeks after I start again I need a month off because the pain it causes.
Oh yeah and a lot of my food is fried due to the lack of a decent oven or grill :(
|Fitness||Calling all runners!!||Aug 28 2009
I started with Military Fitness in a group.
The mental barrier gets broken there because if you are slow you feel like you are dissapointing other people and you also have alot of encouragement.
Running with a friend should make it competative which usually breaks the barrier.
|Weight Loss||Looking for a twin/partner! 5'8" 230||Aug 23 2009
Ha I saw the intial post but well done on your loss.
I am also 20 5,9 and weigh about 215 pounds now...obviously I am a guy but I must say CC has helped a lot. I'm addicted to CC and on all the time now :)
Good luck though
|The Lounge||body type and dating||Aug 23 2009
It may seem pretentious but I would class myself as a decent guy that a women would want a relation ship with (this is based of my friends and roomates who generally cheat and lie just to sleep with the next "cute" girl).
I can say it is almost entirely based of personality for me. I'm not shallow I just couldn't be with someone who I wasn't sexually attracted to as well but this mainly relies on personality. But no I never notice a big butt or boobs when it comes to me looking at girls. I don't think there is any sort of initial attraction for me until I actually start talking to someone. From then on depends whether or not I like someone.
Plus girls with glasses and small boobs are cute as hell :)
Not that you want to know I just would love a girl like that.