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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
15:08 (UTC) |
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Original Post by roxysparkles:
Original Post by jessica_ann_87:
Original Post by moonikins:
Original Post by jessica_ann_87:
Original Post by moonikins:
This is way too heartbreaking to be mean. This makes me really want to win the lottery so I could set up programs to help women like her.
Help women like her? She stayed in a relationship for that long and the whole time hes not working? That is HER fault.
Come talk to me when you've experienced some life.
I HAVE. I just broke up with a guy thats too damn lazy to work. Just because you dont agree with my opinion doesnt mean I havn't experienced life. I feel bad for her, but I cant understand why she stayed that long when he wasn't working for that long.
Really? Seriously?
Really seriously what? I have a different opinion. That makes me "wrong" okay. |
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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
15:07 (UTC) |
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Your telling ME this? I was in TWO mentally abusive relationships. I even almost became anorexic because one of my ex's told me I was fat when I wasn't. I have been mentally abused all my life...I get away from it. I left them. Those relationships didnt last long. |
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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
15:02 (UTC) |
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Original Post by moonikins:
Original Post by jessica_ann_87:
Original Post by moonikins:
This is way too heartbreaking to be mean. This makes me really want to win the lottery so I could set up programs to help women like her.
Help women like her? She stayed in a relationship for that long and the whole time hes not working? That is HER fault.
Come talk to me when you've experienced some life.
I HAVE. I just broke up with a guy thats too damn lazy to work. Just because you dont agree with my opinion doesnt mean I havn't experienced life. I feel bad for her, but I cant understand why she stayed that long when he wasn't working for that long. |
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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
15:01 (UTC) |
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Original Post by chu:
Original Post by jessica_ann_87:
Original Post by moonikins:
This is way too heartbreaking to be mean. This makes me really want to win the lottery so I could set up programs to help women like her.
Help women like her? She stayed in a relationship for that long and the whole time hes not working? That is HER fault.
Every victim asks to be abused, right? -_-
Obviously not. Obviously.
But she could of left a long time ago. |
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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
14:58 (UTC) |
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Original Post by moonikins:
This is way too heartbreaking to be mean. This makes me really want to win the lottery so I could set up programs to help women like her.
Help women like her? She stayed in a relationship for that long and the whole time hes not working? That is HER fault. |
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My husband refuses to pay bills!!!! |
May 25 2011
14:56 (UTC) |
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Your the one that decided to stay with him. Live with the consequences or GTFO of that relationship. |
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Arnold Told Maria to What!?!?!? |
May 23 2011
07:42 (UTC) |
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Have you ever seen the movie pumping iron?
Arny had quite the ego... |
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Beauty: America's Obsession |
May 12 2011
22:55 (UTC) |
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Original Post by caloricat:
Okay, that's too much reading.
Cliff Notes version? Summary?
I mean, you don't seem to be that bad looking (saying with reservation as I have no idea how old you are and thus I officially retract this statement if inappropriate due to age)...so I'm not sure why you'd be too mad.
I know "ugly" women often get pissed at society for wanting them to be hotter and I know many of them turn to God who will "love them regardless of their physical imperfections". But neither approach will change reality, only your individual way of dealing with that reality.
And I'll point out that men don't really have a "free pass" either. I'd love to not have to worry about a "spare tire" or "love handles" or my hair falling out or the size of my penis or the whiteness of my teeth or the size of my pocketbook...but it is what it is. I could just throw my hands in the air and say, "Well, screw it, God loves me and I guess I'll just lower my standards and aim for a fat, old, ugly, toothless, heairless, divorcee with a charming personality who hopefully is blind or has also completely given up on the "societal norms of beauty".
I know SO MANY gorgeous women who believe in God. Who praise him, etc. |
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Wow |
May 12 2011
22:54 (UTC) |
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Original Post by ladyluckpdx:
Original Post by kikt:
Original Post by ladyluckpdx:
Well, Let me be clear. You are assuming I am "snubbing her," and I am not going to pick a fight with you on here. That is not the point of these forums. I work in another area of the room, not directly next to her, therefore I have little reason to speak directly to her. I am too busy WORKING to chit chat and talk. I am not "acting out against her" as you claim. I am simply posting a topic in a forum for ADVICE on how to handle the situation a of bulimic girl who isnt carring her work load and because of her "illness" is making work stressful for myself and OTHERS. You are not providing me with advice, you making assumptions. So thank you for you "opinion" but you obviously are not understand the point of the post I placed and have never obviously been a manager.
Unfortunately you dont get to pick what people write on a public forum - and The Lounge is caring but snarky, so you'll occasionally have to live with opinions you don't like.
Ok, here is my advice for working with people you don't like: be very very polite to them but not in a cold way. The more polite you are the more distance you can put between you and them. Start saying Good morning and Good bye, put on a small friendly smile that you can fake well enough without having to work hard.
It works, I swear!
I will try and give the hello/goodbye a shot! It's so weird cause I like her and everything, I guess if I came across to her in a different way I didnt realize it. But I work with ALL women, and you know how it is with too many hens in the henhouse :)
omg tell me about it. I work with all women and one guy (our boss) in the morning. |
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Wow |
May 12 2011
21:58 (UTC) |
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No...I refuse
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How do you know if you are bisexual? |
May 11 2011
21:37 (UTC) |
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Is this a trick question? You know when your interested in guys right?Then you would know if you were interested in girls too. |
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Tanning... |
May 11 2011
17:28 (UTC) |
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Original Post by kikt:
I am as white as a fish belly and can expose myself to al sorts of UVrays as much as I want, all I get is a reddish colour.
On the plus side: since I've never tanned I have less wrinkles than anybody else my age, despite have thin and rather dry skin! :)
You too??? I can't tan at all. I have tried. I turn red and it fades to pink...and then back to pale. Sun block for me EVERYDAY in the summer. |
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Done, I have to move out. Any tips for a fed up 18 year old? |
May 11 2011
17:19 (UTC) |
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your 18 and you don't have a job yet?
Im letting you know right now...if you move out on a whim because your 'fed up' you are most likely going to regret it.
You need a plan and plans need to be well thought out. You need money first of all. That may take you awhile to save up.
And apply for section 8 just because your fed up with your mother isn't fair to the people who actually need section 8 housing.
It was her bread. Your 18, you can control yourself. She can't keep it in the kitchen because you might eat it? Its HER food. You want raisin bread? Buy it yourself. I live with my grandmother and I buy all of my own food and nothing pisses me off more than when my dad touches it without asking. All he has to do is ask.
If you plan on moving out you need to think about food stamps maybe. Or maybe you could be happy that you have a roof over your head and just lay low and save up.
My grandmother lets me stay with her so I can save up, I listen to all her rules though even though Im 24. Its only fair. |
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Random, girly crap(: |
May 11 2011
17:18 (UTC) |
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Original Post by slimmefaster08:
Ah I freaking love that blue-black color, I saw it on that "How do I look" asian chick. It looks awesome on her... But I'm pretty pale. lol So I might end up looking a little weird :/
And no there is absolutely nothing wrong with purple! It's just the fact that I want to dye it a color I will be comfortable with cause I'm pretty shy.. so going from brown to bright purple might make me more self conscious... orr who knows maybe more confident? I don't know, but keep rockin' the purple hair! haha And yes I am quite young (:
Pale and black hair doesn't always mix well unless its your natural color :/ |
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question! |
May 10 2011
01:25 (UTC) |
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Original Post by hatamoto:
I couldn't give half a rat's ass about the bikinis.
However, I will happily try on any and all of the models within them, individually or simultaneously.
They are mine first *angry face* |
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question! |
May 10 2011
00:24 (UTC) |
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Found another browsing! Her legs are two different sizes
http://www.victoriassecret.com/ss/Satellite?P roductID=1301482539769&c=Page&cid=130 1489330165&pagename=vsdWrapper |
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Previously angry thread...now it's a hair thread. |
May 10 2011
00:17 (UTC) |
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I am most def. guilty of extreme PDA. But then again I have moments where I'm a exhibitionist |
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question! |
May 10 2011
00:11 (UTC) |
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The first two are the same link |
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Wow |
May 06 2011
23:40 (UTC) |
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If your concerned you can talk to your boss and they will keep an eye on her. |
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Eagle Cam! |
May 05 2011
17:12 (UTC) |
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Omg they have grown so much! |
