My goal is to be 135lbs. by January 1, but I'm having a hard time staying motivated. I'm so warn out by the time I get off work, it's a mind game I have to play just to make it to the gym.  I hope that by having other people that are going through the same thing that I can stay motivated.  I just turned 30 and I just got married so I definitely don't want to be the statistic. I just can't seem to stay on top of it! Keep your fingers crossed for me, I'm gonna go for the gold!