I was very atheletic before having my children. I spent four years in the army, and then over time got lazy, fat, and depressed. I have been married to the man I am with now for two years after knowing him for 15 years. I need to lose around 50 more pounds. I am the kind of person that if I don't see the results, it is real hard for me to keep doing it. I know how hard it is to stay up beat and positive. But I am determined to make this a lifestyle change instead of a temporary thing. Time will tell all!