I am 5' 1" and almost 200lbs.  I never thought I would be here.  I have a 2 and 4 year old.  I gained weight during both pregnancies and have not been able to take any weight off (that thing about loosing weight with breastfeeding is a lie).  My husband is skinny and very active.  He loves food and he cooks very well.  It makes watching what I eat very hard.  I know he is my enabler when it comes to food.  He knows food makes me happy so he makes it for me.  Between working and the kids (all 3 of them) exercise has been non existent.  I use to be a very active person but now I am just to tired. I don't want my kids to think this large tired person is who their mother is.  I need help.