sayitaintso7

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The Lounge Before I forget again TVFH Oct 19 2013
16:19 (UTC)
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The Lounge Before I forget again TVFH Oct 17 2013
22:33 (UTC)
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Original Post by kevinatthebrook:

Original Post by iggs:

Original Post by lysistrata:

Original Post by iggs:

We all have an ego. It's hard to have it assaulted and then check your response with undeserved empathy.

 

edit: it just seems to be those times when said empathy is most needed.

Empathy is not something you do for the other person anyway.  :)

For you (sfw)

Is that Richmondbread?

!!!!????

The Lounge who was ccat? Mar 07 2013
19:52 (UTC)
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Original Post by donuthole:

Original Post by sayitaintso7:

Original Post by shosho420:

Um is this why that strange women up there emailed me?

I asked shosho if he/she was fortius. 

In the race thread it seems like him, but the profile is throwing me off. I still have a hunch it's him though.

I'm onto you shosho!

...and I'm not strange, I'm adorable. wtf. 

I don't remember fortius.

*people are strange, when you're a stranger...*

Fortius aka jj

The Lounge who was ccat? Mar 07 2013
19:49 (UTC)
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Original Post by shosho420:

Um is this why that strange women up there emailed me?

I asked shosho if he/she was fortius. 

In the race thread it seems like him, but the profile is throwing me off. I still have a hunch it's him though.

I'm onto you shosho!

...and I'm not strange, I'm adorable. wtf. 

The Lounge who was ccat? Mar 07 2013
19:06 (UTC)
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Original Post by knowan:

Original Post by lysistrata:

Ccat once mistook me for a conservative man.  :)

He mistook me for a chick. I was quite insulted.  Especially since he never tried to hit on me.

lol! 

The Lounge TMI (will delete if it bothers anyone) Mar 06 2013
22:27 (UTC)
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Original Post by agana:

Original Post by sayitaintso7:

Original Post by agana:

Original Post by stoplickingmyhand:

Thanks for the responses. I guess this is where I go for physical discussions since its a body oriented site. Trust me, I have a different site where I ask fiction writing questions, etc. this isn't my whole life.

I guess I'm just wondering why ALL my friends are having gynos faint and ooh and aah over their cooters and I'm not. I feel like a lot of men worry about penis size and nobody ever wonders if they have low self esteem.

Because they are all lying their faces off.  One of your friends probably made up the lie first and then all the others followed suit otherwise they would feel like they had huge gaping vaginas that were capable of swallowing all of mankind whole!

it is completely unprofessional and worrisome of gynos are actually doing this.  Which is why I think your friends are lying.

Omg. Why have I been staying out of the lounge?! This thread is amazing.

Is it really that weird for your gyno to comment on the tightness of your vagina though....? Now I'm concerned. 

ummm....yeah its really weird.  My friend went to the dentist and he commented on the deepness of her mouth.  its just as weird and unprofessional.  Creepster!!!  

My gynecologist made a comment about my vagina being really tight, but I think she just meant I had to relax....? She's this sweet old lady, so I'm not really threatened by her or anything. 

Meh. 

The Lounge TMI (will delete if it bothers anyone) Mar 06 2013
21:40 (UTC)
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Original Post by washywishywasfulness:

Wow. This is so not something you should be worried about!

Unless you use a whiffle bat to masturbate, I'm sure guys are are enjoying having sex with you.

And short of a VERY painful surgery, there's not a lot you can do.

If you want to be sexually memorable I suggest perfecting something you have more control over. :)

I love you.

The Lounge TMI (will delete if it bothers anyone) Mar 06 2013
21:39 (UTC)
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Original Post by agana:

Original Post by stoplickingmyhand:

Thanks for the responses. I guess this is where I go for physical discussions since its a body oriented site. Trust me, I have a different site where I ask fiction writing questions, etc. this isn't my whole life.

I guess I'm just wondering why ALL my friends are having gynos faint and ooh and aah over their cooters and I'm not. I feel like a lot of men worry about penis size and nobody ever wonders if they have low self esteem.

Because they are all lying their faces off.  One of your friends probably made up the lie first and then all the others followed suit otherwise they would feel like they had huge gaping vaginas that were capable of swallowing all of mankind whole!

it is completely unprofessional and worrisome of gynos are actually doing this.  Which is why I think your friends are lying.

Omg. Why have I been staying out of the lounge?! This thread is amazing.

Is it really that weird for your gyno to comment on the tightness of your vagina though....? Now I'm concerned. 

The Lounge who was ccat? Mar 06 2013
21:16 (UTC)
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Original Post by agana:

"problem"

I too thought he was pretty hilarious.  I never once took him seriously.  Honestly, I took it as people being butthurt so he got booted because of complaints.

Pretty much this. 

The Lounge what is so bad for a woman to look different and not fit the mold for mainstream beauty? Feb 12 2013
21:27 (UTC)
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Original Post by washywishywasfulness:

Meh. There will always be pressure from "society" to look certain ways and behave certain ways.

It's up to us as adults to decide whether we buy into the trends or not.

Bone skinny models are glorified in the media- but I don't want to look like them. Strong muscles are glorified in some circles- I have no desire to look like Jamie Eason. Morbidly obese women are idyllic perfection in some corners of the internet- I don't want that either.

So far nobody has come into my house and held me at gun point until I dropped 50 pounds or gained 100 pounds or started lifting up a bunch of heavy things.

I'm sure my preferences are colored by the culture I'm immersed in- but that doesn't mean I'm going to engage in life-threatening or risky behaviors and it doesn't mean that I'm not making any decisions for myself.

I'm not happy with where I'm at now- but when I am- there will still be people telling me I'm too skinny or too fat. Oh. Freaking. Well. That's life. Not everyone will think your choices are the pinnacle of perfection.

As for impressionable young women it's up to their parents to keep them safe until they are old enough to develop (hopefully) reasonable and mature ideas about weight & fitness objectives.

And I could be wrong but I think EDs are about more than simply witnessing a 90 pound model being called beautiful.

Well said!

I personally like looking through beauty magazines, but my focus is usually on the makeup...not body types.
Plus, I find a lot of high fashion models to be unattractive, which in turn makes my self esteem rise. Yay! 

The Lounge spouses in different tax brackets Jan 25 2013
06:12 (UTC)
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I see where you're coming from. I feel like such an inconvenience when I can't pull as much weight financially in a relationship. 

I like to be treated once in a while, but I get frustrated when my boyfriend constantly has to pick up the tab or put gas in my car because I'm broke. He on the other hand says he enjoys it and wants to take care of me. 

Since you're married, he probably sees his money as being yours as well. He might bring more money to the relationship, but I'm sure you bring more of something else. Plus, he must have known about your finances prior to getting married. He might be someone who enjoys spoiling their partner?

Try to enjoy it. 

The Lounge Here's a first...help... Jan 25 2013
05:59 (UTC)
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Maybe a medical issue?

I doubt it's you if he wants to have sex all of the time and seems to enjoy it. 

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 24 2013
20:19 (UTC)
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Original Post by jarredwayne:

Thanks all for your sincere input.  I've seen other dating advice threads turn into a massacre.  The above advice not only helps me, but other single guys lurking about.  KG and Pav, despite coming off as somewhat "grandma's boyish", I do have my shti together.  I've worked as an engineer/project manager at the same engineering firm for the last 8yrs, so tailored suit, shoes, the whole nine yards.  I do confess to not being able or interested in cooking.  I also have a maid for cleaning and a yard guy for my lawn. So points against me there.

 

I don't think having a maid or a yard guy is a bad thing. As long as you're able to show you're not a complete lazy ass. This could be by doing activities and such.

The cooking thing probably won't be a big deal, it might depend on the girl. I have never dated a guy that hasn't enjoyed cooking. I actually get frustrated sometimes because I feel like they always take over when I'm trying to cook! Grrrrrrrr

Anyways, you seem to have more things going for you than against you. You got this. 

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 23 2013
21:56 (UTC)
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Original Post by jarredwayne:

Oh I love women.  I get along with them fantastically.  Even the ones I can only give 50% or less of my personality too (coworkers, etc).  I'm not totally discounting online dating, but as previously mentioned, It seems like a meat grinder of sorts.  Back in my heavy dating days, I was part of an adult kickball league and it was great for meeting new people.  I was thinking about maybe joining up in the spring league.  The only thing is I'd be jumping in feet first and would be assigned a random team since everyone I knew that played has since quit. 

That sounds perfect! Do it! 

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 23 2013
21:38 (UTC)
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Original Post by jarredwayne:

No fisting....got it...that was a one time thing anyways.  Excellent advice CW, Jules, and Meta.  Pav...all of the above.  I need better places to meet.  Sayit, I'd say I'm kinda putting myself out there.  I'm not going to social events on a work night, but maybe I should.  All of my friends female friends are coupled up. 

You're totally against online dating?

It's not my thing, but I think if done correctly it can be helpful. I have a lot of friends that met their boyfriends/girlfriends on dating sites. I heard it's a lot of weeding through bs, but there are some genuine people on there. 

I'm just bringing it up because it seems you're having trouble meeting people and online dating might help that along a bit. Once you've met a few girls you're interested in, I have no doubt that you'll be able to woo them ;) 

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 23 2013
21:31 (UTC)
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Original Post by washywishywasfulness:

I disagree about the fisting. I mean I don't think he should seriously lean in and ask all creeper like, but he has an offbeat sense of humor and I don't think hiding it is a good idea. The right girl for him will laugh, not recoil in horror.

I think it depends on the situation...
Maybe second date material. I don't know if I would throw the fisting thing out there on the first date.  

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 23 2013
21:26 (UTC)
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Original Post by meta15:

You're going to have to describe the type of girl that would catch your eye.  I fear you're only attracted to the bitc#es (based on certain bits of information you've disclosed in the past).

Come on.  You know these women.  Stay away from them.  Go talk to the other women.  Don't ask them their thoughts on fisting.  Ask them questions about what they do and/or what they like to do.  If they start asking you questions, SCORE.  If they only continue to talk about themselves, walk away.

You need to remember something.  Most of them are just like you.  They're wondering how they can get a decent dude to approach them. 

And smell good.  I don't know about the other women here, but I'm a sucker for a man that smells nice.

I love that we both told him to not mention fisting! haha

The Lounge Super Awesome Dating Advice Needed Jan 23 2013
21:25 (UTC)
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Jarred, are you putting yourself out there? It's easy to go to a get together or bar, but it's harder to strike up a conversation. You're not shy via the interwebz, but you may be different in person. I say GO FOR IT! If you see a girl that strikes your interest, approach her. Just be your cute & funny self...and leave out any talk of fisting.

Do any of your friends have female friends you find attractive (physically and mentally)? That's always a good way to get to know someone too.

Now, that's assuming you're having trouble getting dates....
If you're getting dates but having trouble keeping the girl around, that's another issue.

 

The Lounge Opinions on dating and certian habits Jan 16 2013
18:47 (UTC)
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Original Post by washywishywasfulness:

Meh. I've casually dated smokers (of various things) and I have friends that are.

But it's one of those things I've never done and that I don't want done around me. (Hate the smell, takes me back to childhood and not in a good way.)

So I strongly prefer to be long-term/married to someone who doesn't.

But if my husband started lighting up now it's not like I'd divorce him. I'd just make him go somewhere else to do it. And take more showers.

Yep. Same here. 

The Lounge Opinions on dating and certian habits Jan 16 2013
18:46 (UTC)
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Original Post by catwalker:

I'd rather date a pot smoker than a cigarette smoker. No way I'd date someone that chewed tobacco.

I think I would rather date a pot smoker as well. It's hard because the image of a guy smoking a cigarette is so effing hot to me for some reason! I hate the smell though. 

Anyways, as long as the pot use isn't a daily thing, I don't care. For instance, if they smoked as much as I drank, I wouldn't mind. I just wouldn't want to date a stoner. 

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