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The Lounge *edit*. the bible.....ugh. Dec 20 2007
14:12 (UTC)
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Three words

Zeitgeist: The Movie

Google for it.  Sure, it's sensationalist, agenda-filled, rumor mongering and conspiracy theory taken to an art form, but boy does it stir some visceral reactions in people.  I think that everyone should watch it at least once.

If you watch it and it really makes you angry, you've been warned.  I believe that was the producers intent, personally.   

The Lounge YAY It's Friday! Chat Dec 20 2007
13:33 (UTC)
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Except that it's Thursday.

 

The Lounge News Flash: Jamie Lynn Spears Is Pregnant! Dec 19 2007
23:58 (UTC)
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Original Post by p0nda:


Oh and btw, my 17 year old boyfriend moved in with me when I was 23, does that make me a terrible person too? By all of your standards it certainly does.

A terrible person? Not necessarily. Guilty of a crime in many states? Probably.

 

And you know what? I reserve the right to point out the fact that getting pregnant probably wasn't the smartest thing to do right now. Playing the title role on a television program on a children's network with an image to uphold? Yeah... I'm betting there are morality clauses in her contract. If she --or her legal guardian-- agreed to them, then she has an obligation to uphold them. Especially because --as I pointed out-- she is to some extent responsible for the livelihood of others. E.g. the cast and crew of her show. If that show is canceled because she is pregnant, than her actions have impacted the lives of how many other people? Just because a consequence is unintended doesn't mean it's any less real.

Is it a mistake? Sure.

Do people get pregnant without intending to? Sure again. Let me introduce you to 2/3 of my children sometime.

Do teenagers get pregnant all the time? Yep. Does it make them bad? Not necessarily. Here is a kid though who has basically been handed the moon on a stick in the form of a popular television show amongst children. She has abundant example in her immediate family about "What you probably shouldn't do if you want to maintain your career as a teen idol" and yet she falls right into the oldest trap out there. When, by virtue of the modern age, there is no reason --or at least, the odds against it are staggeringly high-- for her to get pregnant if she doesn't want to. Chances are good that she screwed up. Now she and potentially many other people are going to have to live with the consequences.

So no, I'm not judging Jamie Lynn. I am, however, casting sideways glances at her parents who seem to --by what is known publicly-- have done a pretty crappy job of raising children. Who apparently have let their underage daughter move in with a boy who, depending on where they live, may be guilty of a felony for knocking up a 16 year old. Et cetera.

The girl has accepted life as a public personality. She is going to be talked about. And again, my feelings of pity? empathy? I'm not quite sure yet... Goes to the people who may be affected, perhaps in a life altering way, but Jamie getting pregnant. That's something that they have NO control over and yet it is going to affect them. The same way I feel sorry for people whose houses get sucked up in tornadoes. I don't judge the tornado that leveled the block, but I damn sure will talk about it.

Most of all, I feel sorry for the next generation from Spears to be born in the world, because the press has given us such a blow-by-blow slow motion watching of the train coming of the rails view of that family that "Spears" is going to enter the national lexicon as a monosyllabic euphemism for dysfunctional. Watch and see.

 

edit: Where I mention getting pregnant as 'she screwed up' and 'if she didn't want to' I do believe that birth control is the responsibility of BOTH parties involved.  I'm not trying to imply that daddy doesn't have a role in the conception.    

The Lounge News Flash: Jamie Lynn Spears Is Pregnant! Dec 19 2007
22:46 (UTC)
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You know who I feel sorry for?

I mean...besides the poor kid who's going to be asking auntie Brittney for a carton of Marlboro's and a 12 pack of Mt. Dew for Christmas by about age 10

I feel sorry for all the other kids on the show who haven't yet participated in pro-creation who will be fired when the show is canceled. Ditto for the crew who works on this show that may have families of their own to support. They're all going to be looking for a new gig soon too aren't they?

Because Jamie Lynn and her three years older beau refused to practice safe sex.

Apparently.

 

 

The Lounge Fire !!! Dec 19 2007
21:54 (UTC)
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Original Post by missreporter:

do you live in the washington d.c. area?

the vice president's office was on fire today.

 I do.  I was pleasantly surprised to find out that it wasn't the Canadians this time.

 

 

 

That's a little 'War of 1812' humor.

I'm a nerd, ok? 

Pregnancy & Parenting How Do I Motivate My Child? *Warning LONG Post* Dec 19 2007
16:41 (UTC)
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I'm not sure that I have encouraging news, but I'll tell you a little about myself:

When I was 12, Duke University had a program where they gave the SAT tests to children who had done exceptionally well on the standardized tests of the day, which were the California Achievement Tests.  I took the SATs, and scored in the 99th percentile, as a 12 year old.  By that time, my grades were already total crap.

My parents tried all the same things you are trying.  They grounded me, they took things away, they rewarded me when I did well, they wanted to check my homework.  It didn't matter.  I was bored to freaking death in school, and I simply wasn't going to do it.  It didn't matter what my parents did.  

I didn't want to, I wasn't going to.  Period.  End of story.  From about fifth grade on... my grades were terrible.

In fact, I ended up graduating high school only because a very kind Algebra II teacher knew that if she didn't give me a passing grade at the end of my senior year, I wasn't going to get a diploma,  and she knew I'd never come back to finish.  So there I was, the only Senior in a class full of sophomores whose quarterly grades were F, F, F, and F, but whose final grade was a D.  (That was the third year I had taken the class too)

Note to self: I really ought to look her up sometime and say thank you.

I was accepted to college based on my test scores, not on my grades.  But I dropped out after a semester and joined the Army.

It took until I was 26 years old before I realized the value of an education.  That simply knowing the material wasn't enough, I had to actually demonstrate it once in awhile too.  When I went back to school, I had a perfect 4.0 GPA.  

So though I would love to give you a silver bullet to 'fix' your son.  I don't know of one.  My mother has asked me what she could have done to change my study habits and I honestly don't know that there was anything that she could have done.  Besides, I think she tried everything.   I was bored stupid at school, smarter than most of my teachers,  and didn't feel like I should have to inconvenience myself with homework.    The only thing that fixed that was maturity.

Though I'm certainly not recommending you throw up your hands and give up, I just thought I'd let you know that I was the same way, and I'm not in jail, make good money, and am actually wearing a tie, as I type this.   So there is hope. 

The Lounge anyone moved really far from family/friends? Dec 19 2007
03:30 (UTC)
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anyone moved really far from family/friends?

Regularly, but they always seem to find me.

The Lounge Professional healthcare workers? Dec 19 2007
00:51 (UTC)
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I'm not a doctor, but I play one...

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wha?  What do you mean I didn't finish the quote?  I wasn't quoting anyone... Tongue out

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 19 2007
00:28 (UTC)
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Original Post by jtrbug101:



Rock of the Marne, Brother!

Boy do I know Hinesville well.  Lived in the Holiday Inn Express there on 84 for months on end.    Know the EOD unit there well too.  The warehouse across the street from it was where I stored all my stuff while I was working on post.

 

Never did wear the 3ID patch, but I was stationed on 3ID base in Germany.  Was the only unit there that wasn't 3ID.   It was a shame when the third was replaced by the first and the 24th shut down.... Even if it was just everybody changing the patches on their BDUs.

Ah well.... Good memories.   Keep your head down and your powder dry.   Come home safely. 

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 18 2007
18:40 (UTC)
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Original Post by mollymouser:

 get your college degree first and enter the military as an officer.


This is the same advice my father gave me.  I should have listened to him.  He was a B-52 pilot and basically told me two things: Life is much better as an officer, and life is much better in the Air Force.  

 

May your husband continue to stay safe. 

The Lounge Iowa Caucus Dec 18 2007
18:31 (UTC)
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Original Post by courtbarb:

Is that enough answer for you? I don't think this was meant to be a thread outlining specific platforms...

 I asked for three and you gave me three, so yes, I would say that is enough for me.  Laughing

I appreciate your answer.  I'm simply curious what draws a person to one candidate over another.  You're probably right that this thread wasn't intended to outline specific platforms, so I'm happy to let it rest.

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 18 2007
18:18 (UTC)
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If someone is hell-bent on joining the military, this is my advice:

Take a job that is useful to you when you get out.

When I went and talked to the Army recruiter all those years ago he asked me what I wanted to do and I told him "I don't care, as long as I get to jump out of airplanes." I kick myself for ever being 18 and that stupid. I was offered 13 months at the Defense Language Institute to learn Russian (it was still technically the cold war then and Ivan was going to drive through the Fulda gap any day) and I said "No thanks. I don't want to do that."

That sentence is singularly the biggest mistake I ever made in my life.

So after 8 years of being all I could be, jumping out of airplanes, rappelling out of helicopters, and blowing stuff up, I found myself disabled. Suddenly I was 26 with a wife and a kid... and NO civilian skills. No matter how hard I looked I couldn't find a want ad looking for someone to kill people and break things. So I struggled for a few years while I went to school and learned a civilian skill.

I work in the defense industry now, and all the retired military folks I work with.... They were all logistics and commo. All the guys that the 'hardcore' soldiers made fun of for taking 'easy' jobs are all doing very well for themselves now. There isn't a single infantryman (to the best of my knowledge) in my company.

Some day... the military is over and you have to live the same life as everyone else. It's a whole lot easier if you have a way to earn a living when you get out. I work with the Air Force a lot right now and I met a kid whose MOS was 'project manager'. Holy crap. That's awesome. I wish I had the foresight to have been a military PM. I pay my PMs that work for me good money.

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 18 2007
16:57 (UTC)
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Original Post by ornellanicole2007:



Any Opinions, thoughts, words of advice?

I want to address you directly and personally now:

 

I'm not going to say anything that I intend as mean spirited, but neither do I intend to be anything less than completely honest with what I say.

I'm a former Army Non-Commissioned Officer. I have exactly two things decorating my office. One is a "Go Army Beat Navy" picture, the other is the NCO Creed. (Google for it). That creed has decorated every office and cubicle I've had since I've gotten out. I have been led and I have led men into battle. I've stood in harms way, pulled the trigger in anger, zipped body bags closed, and cried my eyes out when Taps is played. Men that I've loved like family have been killed and it sucks. It also could have been me.

EOD is a seriously dangerous job.

There are no two ways around it. It's dangerous. Far more dangerous than just about anything else you can enlist into in the Air Force.

No matter where there is a deployment, there is a need for EOD. Think about it... if there is live ammunition, there has to be someone there to take care of it if something goes wrong. That someone is EOD. You will deploy as EOD. It's a question of when, not if. Chances are extremely high that you will deploy even during peacetime. It's a low-density MOS with a high demand for your services.

Have you ever risked your life? Ever been in true mortal fear that you might die? Do you think you would be able to do your job when you might die any second? People will depend on you to risk your life to keep them alive... and you'll have to do it. Screwing up means you die. Or lose a hand, or an eye, or have half your face blown off. It's not a game. It's your life and the life of others who are depending on you.

Uncle Sam isn't particularly nice to you once he's done with you either, though that's another subject entirely.

Joining the military is never something to be taken lightly. It's a serious commitment. Joining the military when you already know we're a nation at war on two fronts is something else entirely. If your motivation is that you have a strong desire to defend the Constitution against all enemies foreign and domestic, by all means....go ye forth and follow orders. The country needs people willing to lay down their life.

If, however, you just are looking for college money, or 'something to do' or a 'way to get the hell out of here' I would strongly, STRONGLY suggest that you carefully consider your chosen career field. Because there are some jobs that you need to be more willing to die for unhesitatingly than others.

Does that make any sense?

 

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 18 2007
16:33 (UTC)
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Original Post by coach_k:

 ...but they also need EOD techs all over the world. And a new EOD tech is unlikely to be sent to the southwestern theatre because of the low experience level.

The military is not just taking anyone off the streets -- and the US Air Force never did, never will.

I'm calling B.S.  on both counts.

Hell yes people straight out of school get deployed.  It's a whole lot cheaper to lose an E-3 than an E-7.  That's what the lower enlisted are for...  catching shrapnel.

And though you may be technically correct about not taking anyone, the standard isn't that high, and never was.   High school diploma, no significant criminal record, and a passing score on the ASVAB?  Hardly any real discriminators there.  Ok...maybe you don't scrape the absolute bottom of the barrel, but you can get pretty deep in it.

 

And before anyone assumes I'm a military detractor, I'm not.  My perspective comes from having spent my entire life in or around the military.

The Lounge Iowa Caucus Dec 18 2007
16:23 (UTC)
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Which issues, specifically?  I'm curious.   Not all of them, say... the top 3 things in order of importance to you that Mr. Obama has pledged to do if elected.

If you're comfortable answering that is.  

The rest sounds, to me, like charisma.

The Lounge I Want To Work As An Explosive Ordnance Disposal Apprentice In The Air Force Dec 18 2007
15:03 (UTC)
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I sooooooooo wish I had the time to address this with the depth of reason that it deserves.  But I don't.   So I will pose one, solitary question to you:

 

Who do you think gets called to take care of IEDs when they are found in Iraq and Afghanistan?

 

 

The Lounge Iowa Caucus Dec 18 2007
14:37 (UTC)
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Serious, non-trolling, question asked to satisfy my curiosity:

 

Why Obama?

 

Full disclosure:  I'm a foaming-at-the-mouth Libertarian so I don't like Obama.  Nor any other "Tier 1" candidate from either of the two major parties.

I do, however, like to know what motivates people to support individual candidates.   What does Obama have that sets him apart from the rest of the pack? 

The Lounge F-bomb Outback Steakhouse and Their 2900 calorie appetizers!!!!!!!!!!!! Dec 18 2007
00:23 (UTC)
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Original Post by tylerdavis:

i'm 21... and yes.. i use my freedom of speech without care of who I offend... it's a right as an American.... It's on the t.v. everyday hun... i just use it as daily life... no Bowl **** from me.... lol

 Ah... People like you are the reason I'm embarrassed to show my American passport when I'm overseas. 

I used to actually argue when people criticized the U.S. and say things like "Well, yes, we do have some stupid people there, but most people are really great and please don't let a few obnoxious morons taint your view of an entire country."   But I gave up on that a long time ago.  Now I just say "Yup, you're right.  Why do you think I'm here instead of there?"

I love people who live up to negative stereotypes.  Keep up the good work.

 

 

The Lounge My cats are cuter than yours. Dec 17 2007
22:15 (UTC)
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I will never EVER understand cat people.
The Lounge A 'Christmas' photo Dec 17 2007
14:09 (UTC)
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Every year my parents (who live 4300 miles away) and my wife's biological father (also far away) get photos for Christmas compiling the entire year of what the kids have been up to.

This year they're getting digital picture frames loaded with pictures.  A couple times they've gotten DVD slide shows that my wife has set to music.  Sometimes it's pictures in frames... But it's always pictures.

Every year we think we should get them "real" presents, but every year they drop hints that what they really want are more pictures.

If someone cares about you and hasn't seen you in a while, a picture is a great thing to send.  It'll be cherished. 

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