I'm 39 years old, married to a semi-pro golfer who is also a professional performer (singer) and we have two children (1 daughter each); our oldest made us grandparents a little over 2 years ago and our youngest is in her second year of college.  I am a breast cancer patient who is currently on chemotherapy and steriods; the combination of the two causes horrendous mood and behavioral swings (watch out!) as well as horrible weight fluctuations.  I used to weigh over 200 pounds (2002) and have lost over 70 pounds...I need to loose the last 10.  My nutritionist says its okay as long as I don't overdo it.  Slow and steady wins the race, right?