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| Weight Loss | Emotional eater/Read my story! | Apr 08 2010 15:57 (UTC) |
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That's exactly right! You don't need to beat yourself up; of course we all know you shouldn't have done that but it's a journey, so don't expect perfection right away! I bet if you look back at what you've accomplished - especially if you've lost weight (like me, I've lost 20 lbs!) - you'll see you have made great progress! Take a second and think where you'd be if you'd never have started this journey....Every new experience and change you make is a step in the right direction. Remember: three steps forward and two steps back still equals 1 step forward! Don't give up, you'll get there if you keep on perservering : ] |
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| Motivation | Advice needed on ending yo-yoing | Mar 30 2010 04:39 (UTC) |
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Wow! I have a similar predicament to you. I am 5'5" and weigh 145 right now, but my HW was 166 and lowest was around 129 (132 I was at for a year? or so). I was up to 150 last Christmas then got to 140 for awhile, and even 135 (for like 5 days), but this summer I was at 150-155 and within a short period of time got up to 166 (my highest weight ever....uggh!). So far my weight loss is pretty significant but I have gained 6 lbs to be at 145 (was at 139 like 2 weeks ago, and gained 4 lbs in one week from 4 days of binge/emotional eating!)> It is so frustrating> I feel like I'm scared to lose weight, although I really want to. And I want to lose it before summer (get to 132-5 goal) so I don't want to keep putting it off! I'm in Weight Watchers so that gives accountability but I am somewhat of an all or nothing person so when I get in binge mode I can eat a ton in just one night and that really affects my weekly weigh in as you can guess. I need advice and encouragement to get back on the wagon and reinvest myself in the weightloss process : ] I want it so bad i can 'taste' it, lol, but I am wiling to work hard, I just need motivation not to slip up again! It frustrates me and makes me feel sad too, like I'm not a normal person and have all these hiddden 'problems] : [ Cany anyone relate? |
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| Weight Loss | Opposite vent: compliments you don't quite know what to do with | Mar 18 2010 04:49 (UTC) |
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I like this discussion and your comments, as I have dealt with the same thing after losing only (well, compared to you!) 25 lbs. A friend will say, "Have you been losing weight?" and obviously I've been trying to, but I don't necessarily want to explain, "Yes, I have been trying really hard, thank you for noticing!" because it wasn't like I wanted to gain weight in the first place! It's not exactly a compliment, because to me it feels more like they're acknowledging that you were heavier before. No one would have ever remarked (except my close family) if I gained weight, so why do they feel it's okay to say in public, "Wow, how much weight have you lost?" Lol...women sometimes. At least it's probably good intentions...and maybe they're just jealous? ; ] |
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| Weight Loss | Binged! | Mar 18 2010 04:20 (UTC) |
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I totally agree Miket, also, about undereating that sets off binging again. Going back to healthy eating patterns tells your body you're focused and balanced and not getting deprived, so you don't have as strong of an urge to blow it or then the guilt that comes from blowing it. |
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| Weight Loss | Binged! | Mar 18 2010 04:18 (UTC) |
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Miket, I liked your comment about not "underreating"> I'm in weight watchers so when i overeat (like these past four days!) i'm worried about the weigh in day. BUT, I'm still gonna go, and so what if i gained 5 lbs? *(which I probably did.......). It's way better than I would have done not doing weight watchers or watching my eating at all (saying in the last 10 weeks), so to mess up once, twice, or even five times (in 10 wks) is awesome! It is super awesome especially compared to before 'gettin' healthy' which was EAT EAT EAT ever day and then get frustrated. Also, now I can feel like I'm losin' weight kind of quick because if I get back to my normal eating I will - hopefully - lose that binge weight kinda quick. Hopefully ; ] If not, I'll just keep goin' on. : ] |
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| Weight Loss | weight watchers | Mar 18 2010 03:47 (UTC) |
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Hawaiin Girl, |
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| Weight Loss | teens: how many calories do you eat? | Oct 27 2009 12:48 (UTC) |
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18 yrs, 5'6" HW (current): 160 lbs LW: 126 GW: 145 eventually 130 or less Calories: 2000 or 1700? Exercise: 30-40 min moderate exercise/day plus core for 10 min |
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