Sexual Harassment - what to do?

Ok I realized as I was posting in the waitor/waitress thread, I get sexually harrassed a lot. More than average, I'd guess. But then again, is there really an average amount of harrassment?

I can't figure it out. I don't dress provocatively, I don't have an overly curvy or sexy body, I don't flirt. Actually, I joke with my guy friends all the time that I'm a terrible flirt and they agree. I'm friendly, I smile a lot, I make conversation easily. But I get harassed all the time! I get it at my job so much! Men that I'm waiting on will make comments about me or patronize me. It's very off putting. I was on a bus the other day and the man sitting next to me and I were politely talking (I'm 18, he was 27). All of the sudden about an hour into the 4 hour bus ride he tells me he finds me incredibly sexy and beautiful. I didn't know what to do!!

Men: what am I doing to spur on all this unwanted attention? 

Women: How do you react to these situations? Where is the line and what do you do when someone crosses it?

Original Post by loriklorik:

I never get sexually harassed :(

That's because I'm too much of a lady. 

*remembers all the girl's behinds he has slapped and hardly knew and sometimes didn't stick around long enough to find out if they even liked it or not*

Yeaaaaahhhh....

You are friendly and you smile alot, you are flirting... sorry not matter how you try to change it you are... but, even if you are a cold hard bitch you'll get people hitting on you. don't complain. you won't always get the attention....