Sexuality (G-RATED, PROMISE)

So..is anyone here lesbian/gay/bisexual? Just curious.

I'm bisexual. Yup.

I think everyone is on a continueum..  and I tell people, especially young people.. not to label themselves..   for me its always been about the relationship...   however..  if we are talking straight no emotional attachment sex than I am hetero all the way...  

That's funny, because actually I'm the opposite..if there is an emotional connection, then I'm completely willing to have a relationship with a man, but if it was sex with no emotional attachment, I'd much rather be with a woman.

I am married just over 7 years and very happy with my husband..  I just meant that I dont believe anyone is an either/or and given the right person and the right circumstances can find sexual/emotional fullfilment with either sex.. 

I'm heterosexual, but I have no problem admiring very beautiful and/or inspiring/intelligent women-not to the extent of sexual though.

You're young too, so sometimes when you're finding out who you are this is normal.

I'm straight, not that there's anything wrong with that... lol ;-)

I consider myself straight and have no interest in a same sex relationship but I agree with this completely:

...  I just meant that I dont believe anyone is an either/or and given the right person and the right circumstances can find sexual/emotional fullfilment with either sex...  -- Neversaydiekai

I agree with Kai that everyone's sexuality is on a scale... some are just more interested in both sexes than others. That being said, I'm only interested in relationships with males but just for fun, I'm more open...

i am a lesbian, trapped in a mans body!

Lesbian here, but a very picky one.  I say that 'cause a lot of people where I am seem to think being a lesbian means I'm attracted to any and every female, which isn't the case.  I look for very specific traits, both inside and out, in deciding on whom to show interest.

Oddly enough, some of the traits I admire, like big brown "puppy" eyes or cool hair, aren't just confined to females.  I find some guys attractive physically, as well.  However, I have no interest in dating or having a physical/sexual relationship with males.  Guys' bodies are too hairy for me, and I don't dig the male genitalia.

"I say that 'cause a lot of people where I am seem to think being a lesbian means I'm attracted to any and every female, which isn't the case. " -- naia_zifu

I swear, it seems like everybody thinks that. I think it's just the homophobes. I will say to someone whose straight (who thinks that), "Are YOU attracted to EVERYONE you meet?"

I don't know why anyone would think that. Everyone has certain things they look for in a partner... regardless of sexual orientation. I will only date guys but I'm far pickier regarding any female I'm attracted to than with guys.

bisexual but more intersted in girls than guys.  i dont trust men that easy. I have been partners with my grilfriend for a year and 5 months now! prob more, but there you go. Its kinda werid, shes with her b/f but im still with her. Childhood friends and yeh, we are in love... werid situation realy. you promted me to post a pic of my girl accully lol.

*Deep Breath* Ok, I've never admitted this to anyone, but I'm kind of bi-curious. I've never even kissed a girl but I've always been sexually attracted to them. I've never told anyone, not even my bf. He would freak out if he knew because I've kinda hinted in a joking way and asked him and he is sooo not into that!

Funny you should mention that... years ago I had a sexual fling with a female...   it was one night only but we were and continue to be friends..    the thing is...  once I did it, I felt wonderful.  I had broken this big bad taboo..  and I learned sooooooo much..  like I now realize how lucky men are that we like them..   women are so much softer, smoother, smell better... just plain nicer to touch..   and the world didnt cave in...  and that surprises me about your boyfriend... most guys I know would give their left arm to have a their woman agree to a three way with another girl.  Are you sure he is being truthful with you about this ?

Yea I thought it was weird too but I'm pretty certain he is being truthful. He's just very old fashioned and not to mention jealous. I think he's scared I might turn lesbian on him! LOL

hahaha I think you're boyfriend may be one of the few guys not into that. My best friend (whom I used to date) regularly mentions how I should find a girl for him and I to have a threesome with. It sounds nice and I've done it before and it only leads to someone getting upset. haha

i'm bisexual.  however, i'm feeling the label becoming increasingly more irrelevant the longer i am in a heterosexual relationship. 

i dated women for 7 years, was single for a year, and have been in a relationship with a man that i adore for the last year or so. 

yeah, the labels can be accurate sometimes... but some feelings just can't be arranged into a neat little package!

Nani, I'm also bi-curious and while I've done some minor stuff back when I was a wild and adventurous teen, I haven't since I've been with Travis. We've talked about maybe branching out, but just talking about it is good enough for now. :)

Han, your girl's a hottie!

Why didn't you post pics sooner?

han is a hottie, isn't she? smoldering... ;)