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The Skinny Girls Are Here

By Mary_RD on Feb 19, 2009 12:45 PM in Dieting & You

Here in New York City, it’s Fashion Week, where the designers showcase their Fall collections.   It runs until February 26th this year, and the models are on the scene and in the media.  It’s the stuff that distorts our image of ideal weight in the real world. 

But, not to worry!  National Eating Disorders Awareness Week starts on February 22nd.  That’s when health professionals try to raise awareness of the dangers of eating disorders.  Is the juxtaposition a coincidence?  You decide....


We all want to look good

Appearance is on everybody’s short list of important qualities, and we take our cues from the media.  Young women, in particular, seek to achieve the ideal.  But do they really have a chance? 

I ran down to Fashion Week to see the models in person. (You can do that in NYC.)  Just as I thought: The models were young, barely 16, and of course, all were lookers with heavy makeup, styled hair and expensive clothing.  And each was a very tall drink of water.  They are super-thin because they haven't been able to grow tall and fill-out - yet.  Only the rare full-grown adult is super-thin AND healthy too.  


What's ideal?


The general population should maintain its weight in the healthy range on the BMI chart.  For a small-framed women, that is BMI 19 - 21.  BMI 21 - 23 is right for a medium frame, and BMI 23 - 25 for a large frame.  Men should weigh more than BMI 20.  The models are of the small-framed variety.

While there are exceptions to all population-based advice, the BMI is valid.  The BMI chart is for adults.  Children and teens have their own BMI chart because they are still growing. 

 
Eating Disorder Screening

If your goal is to weigh less than you should for your frame, then perhaps you need to take the EAT-26.  The EAT-26 Eating Attitudes Test is a widely used screening tool for eating disorders.  An eating disorder is a collection of off-base thoughts about food, eating, exercise, and body image.  Test yourself to see if all is well.

Here's an interesting article from Newsweek about Why Skinny Models Could be Making us Fat 


Your thoughts....
Do modern women want to be too thin?



Comments


I am a middle-aged man who has watched my two sisters and mother struggle with 'diets' my entire life. My favorite advertisement moment was when the Dove commercials came out with normal women standing around in their underwear. That was hot. I am not saying that the 'skinny girls' or models aren't attractive too. What I am saying is that women need to get healthy in their own body type and feel good about themselves. Wear things that flatter. Be confident. Love your body. That's attractive. When a woman feels good about herself, you can tell. I have a daughter of my own who is 7. She is tall. All of her friends are the 'skinny girls'. You can bet that I am going to make sure that she has a healthy view of her body and herself as she grows up.


It is important to have a healthy view of yourself - BUT we live in a society where 40% of people DIE FROM HEART DISEASE and 30% of the remainder will have heart problems leading to their death. The #1 preventative measure against heart disease is a healthy diet, and anyone who is truly on a healthy diet will not be overweight. So skinny is bad - but overweight is far worse. Being too skinny very rarely causes health issues (I am not saying it doesn't, just rare compared to the alternative) when you compare it to the vast majority, 70-90% of people who die from diseases directly related to their diets!


I do not want to be skinny. I used to want to be, but i quickly figured out after exiting the small town high school i went to that men in the real world, love women with curves! So i'm keeping mine. I'm 5'10" hardly short, theres nothing on my body thats short. I have an hourglass figure for the most part...besides that little bit of pudge im working on. But you know what, I'm happy with my body. I drive men crazy, without even knowing it. That feels good. I don't need to weigh 110lbs to be happy.


tblover900 has hit the nail on the head. If one of the motivations for women loosing weight is to be more confident and attractive to men it's worth knowing that there is such a thing as too skinny, a wide range of weights are very attractive to men. Curves are king, a little bit of pudge really doesn't matter. Apparently Victoria Beckham has made it into a size 0, big deal, she'll be less attractive for it.


Being someone who is recovering from an eating disorder myself, I believe that the Media is PART responsible but not wholly responsible for pushing the "beauty" of emaciation. By presenting this prepubescent appearance as something to be admired then easily influenced people will want to look that way. Thankfully, positive body image campaigns such as Dove or http://www.about-face.org are bringing about a change that I am glad for.

But as I said, the Media is not the only thing at fault. They do harm with negative advertising but at the same time, people do not HAVE to look at an advert. Eating disorders, in turn, are more than just the persuit of thinness. They are deeply traumatic mental problems that have physical complications, and if anyone suspects they have one, please, speak up.


"So skinny is bad - but overweight is far worse. Being too skinny very rarely causes health issues (I am not saying it doesn't, just rare compared to the alternative) when you compare it to the vast majority, 70-90% of people who die from diseases directly related to their diets!"

Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of any mental illness. Between 5 and 10% of sufferers die as a result of complications, often within years of developing their disorder. More often than not due to suicide or heart issues.

Furthermore, those who are underweight generally put themselves at long term risk of osteoporosis, a weak immune system, blood disorders... being skinny is as bad as being overweight. Healthy is what should be desired, nothing more and nothing less - quite literally.


Everyone here is making a lot of sense, but you should see some of the goal weights that Calorie Count members select. Perfectly healthy people, females usually, trying to reach the "underweight" BMI range. Every eating disorder begins with a diet, and so we'd better be careful.

As far as the models go, they are such young clothes-hangers. It's completely theatrical and has nothing to do with real life, which is fine, as long as we know the difference. I hate to say it, but with all the make-up, JonBenet Ramsey came to mind.... My favorite model was there with her mother, a perfectly normal-looking woman in her 50s.


Sounds to me like Fashion Week in NYC is a great opportunity for a few strategically placed Dove advertisment billboards! Seriously, I now look at current photos of gals who were models when I was young, about 40 years ago. A fair share of them look, well, not like they used to! Life changes your body as you age. Many societies in the world have created illusions of the "Perfect female form"...I say that I"m created in His image, and that's perfect. It's up to me to take care of this most precious gift-to be my healthiest. And THAT is why I won't become a slave to the scale. To me, it's not about physical weight. It's about the weight of society vs. my health. Guess which wins?


I'm definitely no skinny girl, but I used to think I wanted to be thin. Now that I'm middle-aged, what I really want is to be healthy. I have arthritis in my knee--I KNOW being overweight makes that worse, I'm tired every night--I KNOW being overweight makes that happen, I'm out of breath when I walk the steps up to my offrice on the 2nd floor--I KNOW that's because I'm overweight.

I just NEED to lose 10 lbs in the short run. If I can get stabilized at 10 lbs for 3 weeks, I'll shoot for 10 more, but I just have to shake the weight or my knees will really get bad. Right now OTC meds keep me going, but I don't want to get to the point where I need knee replacements--EVER.


I would say that the unrealistic images of super thin models/actresses/celebrities have definitely spawned unrealistic, unhealthy weight ideals, at least for myself. I'm at a perfectly healthy weight right now; in fact I'd say I'm pretty fit. I am trying to lose some more weight entirely for vanity's sake. Perhaps the most disturbing part of how I'd like to look is that I don't think I would look how I'd like unless I was vastly underweight. I don't think I'll EVER be skinny enough for my liking. However, I refuse to sacrifice and jeopardize my health and life for the sake of reaching my "ideal". Lol, I could probably use some more therapy, but then again couldn't we all?


I'm tired of seeing these stick thin actresses and models. Katie Holmes was one of my favorite actresses, and she used to be at a healthy weight, more filled out. Now, she looks super skinny, like a bag of bones. It's really too bad these already healthy stars feel the need to be skinnier. I've had my times where I just want to be skinny, but now I realize it's more about a lifetime of being healthy.



Okay ...so obviously it is bad to be too skinny, but the models makes themselves remain deathly thin  via thier choice to do so. The things people will do to themselves for money, huh? What about the other side of the coin, the opposite to most all these blogs here: What about persons whom are thin and try hard to gain and cannot? What are your thoughts on that?



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