Striptease

Here's a neat topic. . .

I recently lost a pretty good amount of weight and I feel like my body looks ok, with the exception of a few parts that still need a bit of work. I am moving in with my boyfriend in January, and I was thinking it would be fun to celebrate after the move by having some wine and then me doing a striptease for him.

First question? (maybe the gentlemen can help) - would you think this would be something he'd enjoy, even though he's seen my "parts" a million times already?

Secondly- I need suggestions. Moves, dress, etc. I have never been confident enough to do anything remotely close to this, so any pointers will help. LOL

Thanks in advance!

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Proper lighting is critical.

If you need someone to practice on, I could give you feedback... verbal and non-verbal ; )

Hmm so far so good.

Proper lighting? And what would be proper lighting?

Let's do this without taking classes. I don't think our new place has pole anyways. ;)

Original Post by igloogal:

Here's a neat topic. . .

I recently lost a pretty good amount of weight and I feel like my body looks ok, with the exception of a few parts that still need a bit of work. I am moving in with my boyfriend in January, and I was thinking it would be fun to celebrate after the move by having some wine and then me doing a striptease for him.

First question? (maybe the gentlemen can help) - would you think this would be something he'd enjoy, even though he's seen my "parts" a million times already?

Secondly- I need suggestions. Moves, dress, etc. I have never been confident enough to do anything remotely close to this, so any pointers will help. LOL

Thanks in advance!

 

He will LOVE it. There is a movie that has an awesome strip tease scene in it, not the movie Strip Tease by Demi but another one. If I remember it I'll post it for you. Remember to move really slowly when dancing for him.

edit: you'll need an outfit too.

Don't forget the lingere. Sexy lingere makes it even more enticing!! You can set the mood also with candles but not to much because you don't want to make it to romantic but more like seductive.

I would suggest taking a pole dancing class as well and not telling him. That would be a total shock to him if you've never done it before!!

Look up 'how to' videos online! I'm sure there are PLENTY on youtube, and if you google it (like I just did) you're sure to find thousands of helpful links.

Lighting, music and your outfit are obviously important. Most important is your attitude, and how you move you body though. SO be confident, learn great moves, and have fun with it.

The movie....are you thinking of True Lies w/ Jamie Lee Curtis? 

Lighting...semi-dark....candles.

Definiately lingerie and stilettos.

Get the moves down to the song...choose your song first.  Good suggestiong to look on Youtube.  You may also want to look up a little on Latin Ladies Styling....the way you can angle your body sort of like a mermaidin a ripple looks fabulous. 

Original Post by devilish_patsy:

The movie....are you thinking of True Lies w/ Jamie Lee Curtis? 

Lighting...semi-dark....candles.

Definiately lingerie and stilettos.

Get the moves down to the song...choose your song first.  Good suggestiong to look on Youtube.  You may also want to look up a little on Latin Ladies Styling....the way you can angle your body sort of like a mermaidin a ripple looks fabulous. 

I'm not sure of the movie. They are in his living room, she is pretty shy but she does this strip tease that is out of this world, my hubby was drooling. I think she used a screen? I know she used part of the wall, she danced like she was crawling up the wall in part of it.

edit: No, I'm pretty sure it wasn't true lies. I know someone out there knows what movie I'm talking about. That is the strip tease you should do. He will be eating out of your hands.

Stay off da pole!

Original Post by r4eboxer:

Original Post by devilish_patsy:

The movie....are you thinking of True Lies w/ Jamie Lee Curtis? 

Lighting...semi-dark....candles.

Definiately lingerie and stilettos.

Get the moves down to the song...choose your song first.  Good suggestiong to look on Youtube.  You may also want to look up a little on Latin Ladies Styling....the way you can angle your body sort of like a mermaidin a ripple looks fabulous. 

I'm not sure of the movie. They are in his living room, she is pretty shy but she does this strip tease that is out of this world, my hubby was drooling. I think she used a screen? I know she used part of the wall, she danced like she was crawling up the wall in part of it.

edit: No, I'm pretty sure it wasn't true lies. I know someone out there knows what movie I'm talking about. That is the strip tease you should do. He will be eating out of your hands.

 Omgoodness now I am dying to know which movie this is.  Someone please answer!

Original Post by devilish_patsy:

 Omgoodness now I am dying to know which movie this is.  Someone please answer!

 9 1/2 weeks (?)

Yes I'm going to wait to hear what the movie is. . .

For music, I was thinking "I Touch Myself"- Divinyls? (one hit wonder I think)

Lingerie and stilletos I can do. But I need to strip slowly, so it can't be one piece. ;)

Original Post by santonacci:

Original Post by devilish_patsy:

 Omgoodness now I am dying to know which movie this is.  Someone please answer!

 9 1/2 weeks (?)

Bingo and here it is.

http://video.aol.com/video-detail/9-12-weeks- joe-cocker-kim-basinger-mickey-rourke/3948781 349

Original Post by r4eboxer:

Original Post by santonacci:

Original Post by devilish_patsy:

 Omgoodness now I am dying to know which movie this is.  Someone please answer!

 9 1/2 weeks (?)

Bingo and here it is.

http://video.aol.com/video-detail/9-12-weeks- joe-cocker-kim-basinger-mickey-rourke/3948781 349

 

 Thank you boxer
This has been most enlightening. lol

Any other suggestions would be helpful. . .you all are great!

ooo, moving in. just make sure you give him some extra treats even further down the road. & dont be surprised if he keeps asking you to do it. actually i have not done one in awhile, but maybe after winter is over.

Original Post by igloogal:

 

For music, I was thinking "I Touch Myself"- Divinyls? (one hit wonder I think)

 Makes me think of Austin Powers............

Original Post by octo-luv:

ooo, moving in. just make sure you give him some extra treats even further down the road. & dont be surprised if he keeps asking you to do it. actually i have not done one in awhile, but maybe after winter is over.

 Extra treats?

Wonder if it's more than I already give him. . .  please do share! ;)

Decide whether or not you and he would like it more playful and even a little comical (which is kind of the sense I get from using the song "I Touch Myself", lol) or more serious, because there's nothing worse that trying to be sexy and serious and falling on your face - in which case, the best thing is if your partner has a sense of humor and you can both laugh about it. Also, I agree... lighting, lingerie, shoes and music are crucial. Definitely some nice candles, enough to give some decent light, and maybe good-smelling ones - they do wonders for the rough spots :)

We both have a good sense of humour.

Now I'm second guessing my song choice, so I'm open for song suggestions folks!