My Super Skinny Boyfriend

So any girls out there dating a guy that if you gave a girls name, would be WAYY hotter than you?  lol  Thats me and my boyfriend.  He has a perfect tiny little body and then theres me, protruding over him. hahah! Talk about uncomfortable!  And he loves to grab my fat and laugh! ITs soo not fair.  We've been dating for 2 years, he is my best friend.  So being that comfortable together, we are not afraid to say whats on our mind! I Tell him he needs to eat more, he tells me "shut up fattie"..  its a back and forth thing. haha Deep down, I know he's kidding, but I would love to loose weight for me.  I weigh 157 right now, my goal is 145.  My boyfriend however weighs 145 (DEF. does not look like it though).  Life is sooo not fair. :)

We both got on the scale last weekend....and he was 7 pounds LESS than me.  He's only a couple of inches taller.

Arguably, he's got a very very thin frame, but he's somewhat built in his upper body.  Talk about defeating!  The only reason I could laugh it off was because I KNOW I'm losing weight and soon will be far far less than he! :) 

 i just saw your picture and you look GREAT!!!

but yeah, i know what you mean. even though i don't have a bf like that, i see plenty of guys who have a nicer, leaner, sexier (lol) body than me!!! go figure!! i guess it's because they're more active and don't turn to food for emotional needs like us women XP

tatjanaturtle: AMEN! Thats how we are.. But now he does little things to just trigger me.. "Wanna go to McDonalds?"   "Oh I want some ice cream!!"  I mean it should be against the law to go to the ice cream stand to buy someone else who is skinnier than you ice cream. haha!   But he better just wait.. Once im smaller than he is it is ALLL gonna come back! KARMA! haha

hummus86: Thanks for the picture comment:)  Maybe it was just a good angle? lol  One time.. I was at the mall and there was this person in front of us.. long hair.. cute jeans.. AMAZING BODY.. and i say to my friend, " Look at her!  Thats not right!" She was a damn little stick... but then.. she turned around and she was a HE!  Now why do guys go around wearing girl pants?? To show us that they look way better in them?? hahaaa!

I'm fortunate.  My boyfried is SUPER supportive.  I'll make a very healthy meal and have a portion and..well, he'll just eat the rest!  So...he never suggests unhealthy options to me.  He waits for me to say...it's been a week since I've had frozen yogurt....wanna get some?!?   And he's always down. 

But holy heck....him getting on that scale....buuuuumer! 

men have the glorious beauty of NOT having babies or periods. they don't go through the body changes we do darn them! I would love to see what a guy looked like after going through a year of PMS binges

tatjanaturtle:  That is awesome! Thats what people need,  a really good support system!!  Someone to "finish the rest" haha!  Joel comes in sometimes and im eating a bowl of popcorn and he just takes it and finishes it.  And really it used to piss me off but now.. i smile and say " Thanks hunny"

Having someone else to support you makes it soo much easier!

LOL Tempest!!

tempest: I agree.  They don't understand the horror we go through each month.  I try to control my eating when it gets to be that time.. but its like.. I can never get full and it makes me miserable.. than bloated.. and OH gosh.  You have a very good point. 

Anyone in here have kids??

I'm pretty lucky in the guy dept, he's thin too but he came into our relationship with healthy eating habits and will eat whatever I cook for my diet lol. If i make a salad he looks over at it and wiggles his eyebrows "mmmm can I have a bite?" hes a veggieholic but likes meats too, and darn him he's built like that with a perpetual tan (cajun)

No kids...and tubes tied so no kids in the future either. :) 

Tempest you are lucky.  My boyfriend is like a little kid! He comes over here with cookies in his pockets for crying out loud! haha

I'm 36 yrs old 166 lbs and have 3 great kids, all 3 years apart. oldest girl is 16 (17 in 2 months) my son is 13, and my youngest girl is 10

About the kids thing.. OH mann my friend just had a kid and like.. After seeing her stretch marks and stuff.. Im lke NO WAY! lol  Totally freaked me out!

You weigh 166 after 3 kids????   That is amazing!!!  

lol if anything i made his eating habits worse before i started dieting, got him turned onto those delimex taquitos and dip with nachos...... shame on me

I actually didn't gain alot of weight till my dad got cancer, after my youngest was born i weighed about 140 but I'm only 5' tall so it looked like more on me than someone taller

Ohh i see..  Sorry to hear about your dad:( 

its okay now he's not hurting anymore, but dealing with it led me to drown my sorrows in reeses cups, went up 40 lbs in like 6 months. it was not a pretty sight back then