sweet 16

so my sweet 16 is in 19 weeks and i need to loose weight cause my family hates they way i look not my mom or dad but my extended family so i need to do something about this. Have your ever felt like the black sheep of the family because your weight?  cause i have my whole family is skinny and it killls me to know if i eat a chip but @$$ will blow up the size of texas...if you know what i mean...well and one going through the same thing are anyone will to talk about it let me know

thanks

Melissa<3

Well, I am five years older than you, and the situation was always different. I was very thin all my life, and I was the "black sheep" because I was not overweight. Anyway, you should not worry about what your family thinks of you. It doesn't matter what they think, because you are the only one who has to live with yourself. I know I can't be of much help to you -- but I hope you understand that you shouldn't have to go around trying to please everyone.

I hope you have a lovely 16th. Whatever happens, just enjoy yourself. I spent mine upset because I'd gained 4 lbs overseas the month before, and was too worried trying to lose it to have a good time. While I can't say I really care either way myself, if birthdays are important to you, then you shouldn't let it spoil your day. 

WELL IM 3 YRS OLDER GURL LOL!

AND MAN CAN I RELATE! WELL MY EXTENDED FAMILY ARE A-HOLES BOUT ME WEIGHT EVEN THO IM "THIK" NOT FAT! LOL  AND THEY ALWAYS BE BREATHING DOWN MY NECK BOUT MY WEIGHT! O LOOK..HE HE LOOKS LIKE SHE GAINED SOME POUND! OMG MAKES ME WANT 2 SLAP THOSE HEIFERS!!!!

AND DEN MY PARENTS ARE 2 HELPFULL EITHER.. WE WILL OFTEN GET IN FITES ABOUT MY WEIGHT IF I GET BIGGER THAN A SIZE 11 IN JEANS! OOMG! THE SMALLEST I CAN GET IS A 9!!! BUT THEY ARE ALL PRETTY HURT FULL EVEN IF U TRY 2 IGNORE IT... THANK FULLY I GET A TON OF SUPPORT FRUM MY BOYFREND!(I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!) I SHUD HAVE MET HIM SOONER AND MAYBE MY LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN A HOLE LOT BETTER!

WELL IF U NEED 2 TALK GURL IM HERE FOR YEAH CUZ I DEAL WIT DIS ON A DAILY BASIS =D