I thought I'd share something amusing...

So I've been eating healthily and exercising since february, along with a few minor blips I'm doing well and look much better for it...anyway, the funniest thing happened to me. I went to re-sign up to my uni gym, and the guy who inducts people who ignoed me the first time proper checked me out and winked at me! it made me giggle...men are so predictble, but yay, ego boost :-D ! to be fair i dont think i look that much different!

You may not think you look different...but if you're feelin good, you're probably putting out a good/confident vibe and that's pretty attractive.  Boys are silly that way, you feel bad, they don't notice you, you're in a good mood and walking around like you're the ****, they fall over themselves to say hi.

Keep up the good work!

oops double post. LOL

Nice! Great boost!

I was BIG in high school and this one guy used to tease me about it relentlessly...I mean, he was MEAN to me. I went home crying more than one (more than 10) time because of him!

A few years later, I dropped a bunch of weight and was working at a store. He came in and I'm thinking "ok, here we go, what the hell will he make fun of me about this time" Well, instead he starts hitting on me!!! I was like WTF?

Finally I said "you really don't remember me, do you?", he said no and I told him who I was and he was like 'o' and I said, nope, never going out with you! What a nice feeling that was! hahaha

I agree, though, additude is everything with men.....it's why I've always been able to pick up guys, big or small, cuz I always acted like I weighed 110 haha.

This is a really good point that I need to be reminded of constantly, so thank you. It works both ways too. If you exude confidence, the opposite sex will usually take notice.

I have a hard time with this sometimes. I was just talking to a friend of mine recently, confessing that I have a major crush on this guy..."I think he's way out of my league though," I told her. And she said (God, I love her), "You have to stop thinking that you're not good enough for people. You need to start thinking, 'why the hell would he not like me? I'm beautiful and smart and interesting and he'd be a fool...'"

I wanted to jump through the phone and kiss her.

Ok, a little off topic, but I had to share.

Good for you!! Doesn't it feel so satisfying? NaturallyD and Thermal are totally right-- you have to believe that you truly are hot ****, and anyone would be lucky to have you. One year in college all the sudden I felt like I was on top of my game, and I acted it and the boys just ate it up. It's funny though, now that I snagged a great boyfriend I find myself forgetting my hotstuff attitude and sneaking into old habits of not feeling good enough. We all have something to offer though, and we're all hot pieces of A. Go us.

Yay, I love everyones meessages of female empowerment. I am deff going to take your advice when it comes to men and believe I am hot and beautiful and that they'd be lucky to have me! Thank you !