blueyedblonde1956's Journal

My son had to be evicted!
Jul 02 2009 18:49

Well Kyle has done it now at 17 years old has put me into a postion i never thought as his devoted loving mom i would ever find myself in, i had to ask him to leave, i got eviction notices and then a letter saying my home is in jeopardy..so he packed his little backpack and off he went down the street to his friends, my heart was broken, i know he brought this upon himself but it doesn't make me feel any better knowing my little boy is roaming the street, sure he is at a friends but the mother is never home so there isn't to much disipline going on, and wouldn't you know it every darn tv station is showing family situations....i just want to curl up and hide and cry but i know that won';t help him, i have to be strong, and this is one reason i am glad Rick is coming on Saturday, he is strong.  I made some phone calls a little while ago to some agencies, most of them passed the buck except for one that gave me some sound advice and numbers to call!

Possibilities:

Talk to his P/O Jennifer who is now on holidays..grrr.... if she can suggest some ideas!

I need to get Kyle back on his "concerta " 54mg medication too for his ADHD and ODD !

Talk to his dad....emailed him, not much help there i am afraid! 350 miles away too in Montreal!

Kyle is going to need to want help for most of these agencies because of his age, which he doesn't seem to think he needs!...grrr

Since he won't listen to me i will wait till his P/O Jennifer comes back and perhaps she can get the ball rolling with Kyle...she sure picked a heck of a time to go on holidays.....the agency i was on a waiting list for, for Kyle says Kyle himself will have to call to reactivate the file.  So there are some places he can get help.

- Youth Haven for shelter when Tyler moves he may need this!

-Jail may end up there?

-Buzby Centre to help with kids on the street!

It was also suggested to me to contact the mgmt here and ask them what Kyle needs to prove to them or needs to do to be able to live here again?  I think i will wait till Tyler moves away and the P/O is back and of course Anne from building mgmt returns from holidays too!  This i do need to think about!  Do i want him back to sleep here yes to be around the building definitely NO!

In any case there is school in Sept to think about, he will be going for court sentencing July 28th, for his 3 counts of breach of probation...he needs to have his wisdom teeth pulled In August and will be swollen after that for a couple days apparently!  He needs to want help, everything to him he just doesn't care, or isn't taking seriously...doesn't take any of this seriously YET!  I think once Tyler moves to the east coast and he runs out of friends he may take things more seriously, i can only pray and hope.

What worries me is he is not ready to stand on his own 2 feet emotionally or mentally yet he still needs guidance, and structure! Which on the street he will not get!  He isn't smart enough yet to make those important decisions , i only hope if he needs me... truly needs me ....he will CALL....If anything ever hapens to him i will not survive it, i know that...i am weeping right now just thinking about that possibility...god!   Oh i hope i am doing the right thing!It's because i care, AND i need my home and because i need him to stand on 2 feet even though in my heart i don't think he is mature enough age 17 but more like a 13 year old clearly to young to be running the streets!  I think he will mature a little pretty soon here!

Well my mind is getting foggy now to many facts, in and out....i need to rest now, and my back is killing me!.....phew