blueyedblonde1956's Journal

The boom has dropped! Poor Nicole and Kyle!
Oct 14 2009 14:40

Well I am pretty upset today I received a very disturbing email from Nicole, Brian has been exploding in fits of anger in the mornings, and at home on the way to dropping off Nicole at work and Kyle at school, he blew up at Nicole and Kyle and stopped the car stormed off all over a discussion about pop tarts?  Now it gets worse, there has been a lot of tension going on and fighting, they are doing what they want, not listening, how can it change so quickly i don't get it..Brian isn't listening to Nicole or Rob and Kyle will only listen to Brian.

 Kyle is imitating Brian and this isn't good at all ...oh no not at all........!

Nicole went to the hospital 2 weeks ago when all this happened and lost the baby she was 2 months pregnant (I didn't know) and all due to the stress of Brians outbursts and then Kyles bezerk reactions or just the 2 guys fighting?  Kyle apparently will only listen to Brian not Nicole or Rob, and if they try to guide him he talks like Brian telling them to mind their business etc.  I knew it was a matter of time before Brian showed his true self and his abusive ways and I have plunked Kyle right into the middle of it.  God what have I done?

The trouble was one morning on the way to work and school Brian Nicole and Kyle, Nicole had suggested to Kyle to eat less sugar in the pop tarts and eat healthier breakfasts and then  Brian exploded jumping of of the car slamming the door almost breaking the window yelling he can't stand the 2 of them anymore...and stormed off which then caused a chain reation with Kyle going bezerk..Nicole has gotten so upset and stressed by all that morning crap with these 2 within the next 2 weeks got some cramping, high blood pressure and cramping, went to the hospital and she lost the baby, strange though she doesn't want them to know...why?  If Brians explosive antics have caused such a strain on Nicole to lose the baby he should be held accountable, take responsibility...why is she protecting the jerk, she doesn't want me saying anything from here he should be shown the affect he has on people she told me they both need professional help and right now Nicole and Rob have locked themselves in their bedroom to avoid confrontations, they are boarders in their own condo...I thought Brian had changed this is what Nicole told me and what I saw when I saw him but now Nicole is so upset by all this, doesn't know what to do is looking into gov't agencies and councilllors to get them help.  I feel so bad for her losing the baby over all this upset, and I hate the idea of Kyle spending one more minute with that father of his corrupted him.  Nicole says Kyle is starting to act just like him in every respect...my worst nightmare is coming true!  Nicole doesn't want me to say anything to them...why not? I don't get it.  In any case I have asked her to call me tonight to talk! Well Kyle can't come back here to Barrie, he has to stay in Montreal at last till his probation is done, it's in my house order he is not allowed to ever live here again, because of the trouble he caused here so I hope that Nicole can find some agencies to get them the help they need.  Now Kyle is young and impressionable and I know it isn't as much him but that Brian is a grown man what the heck is the matter with him and these outbursts....even anger mgmt didn't help him....you have to want the help....so this puts me in an awkward position she doesn't want me to say anything so my hands are tied...but if Kyle is exposed to a monster I want him out of there too!

And how is your day....I am having a beer, I think under the circumstances this is allowed!Now I am worried and upset?

My hands are tied, I hope Nicole calls me tonight! Maybe I can shed some comfort and light!

Boohoo in Barrie BEB!