blueyedblonde1956's Journal

Nicole thinks Brian has a mental disorder now? Wants them out!
Oct 16 2009 22:54

I really don't know what to do, burt Nicole has had it, she won't kick them out without a plan of action, but still this is upsetting to say the least.  So i guess Brian passed down to Kyle all these learning disablilties, I have been website surfing trying to find agencies..where Kyle can live somewhere, get the professional help he needs and also be taken care of...he can't come back here because of the trouble he got into and he is on probation but if i can find an place where he can get constant supervision, a home a bed food clothing guidance and an education...someplace..he is to old for foster care besides there he wouldn't be getting the guidance and professional help he needs.  But Nicole told me she is looking into it too but she wants him out and probably Brian too so if I had of know all this I never would have let him move in there in Montreal...but it was that or jail for the breaches...some choice eh?

Poor Kyle being bounced around like this ...can't be good for him, if he just had of stayed out of trouble here...grr

He has learning disabilites I know and processing difficulties, and if he has outbursts, now because of great dads influence he won't or can't follow rules and do what he is told he will have great troubles getting a job if he doesn't have the processing skills required to even make up a resume...as Nicole says he needs to be hand held in almost every thing he does, so he needs round the clock supervision, guidance, and education, professional doctors and shelter by people who really care.......!! Is there such a place! No not a mental institution or jail! I have written a couple sites for learning disabilites and am going to my doctor next week for my complete pap exam etc so maybe i can ask her for suggestions....if i can get Kyle back here into some program fine, but getting him away from his father will be almost impossible especially when he turns 18 in April I won't be able to intervene then!

I have always had trouble with being able to do the resource info thing, I never know who to contact for what service and the blue pages well I am at a loss completely there but am trying my best..I just wonder if there is even such a place where Kyle can live, get an education with his special needs, get all his financial and emotional needs met, plus get work at some point, have freedom not be locked up, make friends and have relationships, and be able to one day be independant enough to make a life for himself, Nicole doesn't think that will be possible, she believes he will need to be guided or hand held through all decisions forever!  I am so deeply saddened by these latest events, I don't know what to do anymore.  He's such a sweet boy surely there is a solution out there somewhere!..BEB