whats the strangest thing you find attractive in the other sex?

don't look at me weird! =P

but i think hands are downright sexy! big/ worked over/ masculine

hands.

yup, i said it.

what about you guys?

i adore long eyelashes, dimples, and dainty noses. <3

also, nice arms. not bulky, but nicely toned. i despise noodle arms. and long hair is definitely a must. short hair on a guy just looks so weird to me. :S

Totally agree, long hair all the way, i also love beautifull eyes so you can gaze into them!!(is that a bit wired?) OH yer and beatifull skin!!!!

strangest thing? cheek muscles are soo hot on guys ahhh... think channing tatum if you dont get what i mean

i have a thing for guys that wear hoodies.

i have no idea why. they're just so attractive to me, especially when they walk around with the hood up. sexiest thing ever. 

physical part ? 

i love back dimples. i'm not sure if thats weird or not though. :P

I'm actually not normally attracted the guys who make you think "oh BABY!" when you look at them for the first time. I prefer subtle good looks that become more noticeable as you get to know them. Guys on the skinnier side, but still muscular, are my favorite. With deep, chocolate-brown eyes and short brown hair... and that ADORABLE laugh and smile...

But above all, intelligence is the deciding factor for me. No matter what other attributes he has, I just won't be attracted to any guy who isn't extremely intelligent. I'm talking genius-smart, and nothing less.

I love it when guys are tall, lanky, and clumsy looking. I dunno why.

AND!!! I love looking at a guys collarbone, they have to have a nice collarbone or else it bothers me. haha. I dunno why.

Oh yeah and I love it when they have DARK brown eyes and dark brown hair. Its a total turn on.

And even though I am extremly pale as a ghost. (no lie) I love it when they're really tan.

Like my boyfriend he is all of the above and he has really nice nails.

OOOOOOHH I hate it when guys have hair on their back, face, or like a forest under their arms.. Not gonna lie.. It scares the crap out of me. I feel like I'm going to get lost in the hair. lmao

I like it when they have like either

A. Emo/scene hair. Total turn on.

or

(polar opposite)

B. Surfer boy flip the hair kinda look. Again a total turn on.

I don't really go for "Oh BABY!" looking guys either but the guy I'm with (Ryan) is freaking hot. :P

But yeah those are my turn ons and offs. lmao

Original Post by bonjourlaure:

I'm actually not normally attracted the guys who make you think "oh BABY!" when you look at them for the first time. I prefer subtle good looks that become more noticeable as you get to know them.

 I totally agree with you. I think guys that are too built and look like they try way to hard look gay, I'm sorry but that's the biggest turn off to me. I like guys that are way bigger than me to, like my boyfriend ways 250lbs more than I do and I love it lol

The oddest thing for me I would say when guys clench their teeth together and the side of their faces/jaw gets all tight, like if they chew gum (some men). I dont know why but I love watching it.... =0)

hands and shoulders

big hands and muscular shoulders = sexy<3

Anything to do with bone structure, Jaw Line, Cheek bones, ect.

But my number one thing has to be hips X_X. I'm not sure what it is. But It's very hard to explain. If a guy has nice hips, Manly hips. He's amazing looking.lol

Original Post by thedog1212:

strangest thing? cheek muscles are soo hot on guys ahhh... think channing tatum if you dont get what i mean

 YES!!!!!

like when they clench their jaw and you can see those muscles there, UGHHHHHH just wow

i love big broad shoulders and shapley arms, i love smooth tan skin, dark hair, oh and height is a MUST for me. I'm 5'9" and i like to wear heels occasionally, lol, and a guy that is still taller is PERFECTION... so basically 6'1' and up for me :D 

Can't remember if I've posted here, but I love someone with beautiful eyes: bright blue or green.

I imagine myself looking into their eyes:  it's amazing.

I also wouldn't mind someone with a six pack. :D

I don't know if it is exactly strange but I really like adrogynous looking guys.  Maybe not completely so but being a little feminine is a total plus!

And, yeah, I like the eye lashes.

And I like thin guys, but I like to be thinner, I guess for my self esteem, -.o

And I like pale skin but not sickly pale.  Or a sort of brownish color.  Like... filipino color, sort of.

yeah, so i have a thing for necks to the extream! i am particularily fond of the way their hairline grows on the back of their neck and around their ears. and i am obsessed with jaw lines, i like very defined, strong jawlines. i eyeball guys very hard in those places! lol

Must have nice eyebrows!

My BF didn't at first, but now I pluck his eyebrows every couple weeks.  Haha.

here's my list of qualities I would find attractive in a guy:

vegan

Christian

great voice

slight accent

good vocabulary

well-traveled, preferably someone who is American but grew up abroad

knows Chinese

tall

athletic

musical

loves kids

smells nice

redhead

dressed up for work... business casual look

It'd be really tough to find all those things together though!

i havent read through it all so i dont know if someone already said this but...arm hair.

not like super hairy arms obv. but a good amount. its strange but i love the way t feels bahaha

"i have a thing for guys that wear hoodies."

me too!! i think it's cause they seem somewhat mysterious lol

back muscles are really important too. and hands (ie nails and lotion) lol

if he takes care of himself it makes it better

i really like when guys wear glasses (think Ne-yo with glasses)

I dont know why but I love my boyfriends belly button! He also has a tattoo with a lot of writing on his forearm and I find it VERY attractive but I really dont like tattoos... so, thats odd

I love hoodies on guys too!

But the thing I find most attractive is if a guy is very intelligent, or just naturally very smart.

It's not really voluntary either, I just love guys who are apt, and seem like they may have been a little geeky, but are still cute.