whats the strangest thing you find attractive in the other sex?

don't look at me weird! =P

but i think hands are downright sexy! big/ worked over/ masculine

hands.

 

yup, i said it.

 

what about you guys?

Original Post by rhia_lia:

 as remember they are the window to the soul! hehe

 thats so true...

first thing that came to my mind was when you can see veins in their forearms!

Also if you watch in some movies like when guy actors are like getting angry / are yelling and almost start to cry and clench their teeth really hard and you can see it in their jaw and temple.

haha dont know if anyone knows what Im talking about

I like pale skin and long black hair with or without tattoos or piercings. Don't know why that's my thing. Or when the guy has a thin beard that trails their jawline with or without an attached thin mustache.

My guy is pale with long black hair, but he's also very feminine. 

Hmm what else. Feminine men. Like for example bi men who are very flamboyant. :o) And of course men in uniform. Not just any uniform though, but "hero" uniforms like firefighters, police men, EMTs, military. Or of course also business suits. There's just something about the professional look that says "You know you want this!" Why yes, yes I do!

On women I love the gothic/punk look. I definitely like long hair, and the ones who look exotic.

Shoulders! also, jaw line. You know? A nice masculine angled jaw.

An other thing that is a little weird is size (not in that way dirty people!). i cannot be really physically attracted to a guy that isn't at least, oh probably 6 in taller and 50lbs heavier. i want my man to be able to pick me up and throw me over his shoulder. lol. and im not too tiny either. If i feel like could beat him up or pick him up, no go. but not all muscle. not into bulging muscles. Just big and rather strong.

my bf is nearly a foot taller and had big awesome shoulders. lol im happy

i cant believe no one's said this! EYELASHES! its so hot when a guy is all masculine, but has really long thick dark eyelashes- it makes me melt.

Original Post by jolie_fille:

i cant believe no one's said this! EYELASHES! its so hot when a guy is all masculine, but has really long thick dark eyelashes- it makes me melt.

Lol, that's true!

Original Post by peacelovehominy:

Original Post by babydee921:

lol this might sound weird but there backs..lmao! Seriously I don't know why but the like shoulder blade area is really sexy to me.

 same with me!!! ahhh this is too cool. XD

 hahaha me too! i love to see/touch a guys shoulders lol.

I agree with the eyelashes too. hubba hubba.

lol i also find it wierd how so many people like paler skin, i guess everyone is different lol.

Oh, and I saw stop-loss this weekend (my new fave movie)

and I can tell you anyone who looks like ryan phillipe better watch out... I'll be waiting  haha

i definitely agree about the broad shoulders and being tall. i just like guys who look like they could protect me if needed. not that i'm a wilting damsel in distress, its just nice to be held by someone really big and strong  =)

but the weirdest thing? necks. i don't know why but i have a neck fetish! i think its so sexy when guys turn their head and you can see the muscle...not weird bulky muscle but...okay haha this sounds really strange, its just something my eyes kinda gravitate to if i'm talking to a guy. 

um i'll have to agree with the ryan phillipe comment, also...!

Well placed lines around the eyes. Worldly men--swoon!

what i find most attractive is not a body part, it a state of being. When i see the man being confident and grounded, wow, that is so sexy..... and for the body part, I would have to say wide/big shoulderblades, broad shoulders. i know it's weird !!

I also like the bad boy/biker with tatoo look... on the bike also   ;-)

 

scars

especially on his lips or face
but other places are good too
and only if they are obtained unintentionally

Hands as well! I love delicate, thin, long-fingered hands on men. And skinnyness on men in general. Ahhh, tall skinny men are beautiful....

for me it has to be that their tall!! taller than me - but thats not strange is it! i like shaved heads which is weird but i love the feel of it!! :)

Ugh, I'm afraid I'm going to sound really weird, but here goes:

- Skinny guys.  I can't help it, I like them thin.  Not too thin, mind you, and definitely not thinner than me.  And I do like some muscle curves in the upper arms, but very subtle.  Big, veiny muscles are a total turn-off for me.

- Boyish facial features.  Round baby cheeks, long eyelashes, stuff like that.

- Gray hair.  Especially on guys that seem too young to have gray hair yet.  I don't know what it is about it.

You're right Crystal, that was weird! Weirder yet, you just described me. Who would have known I was somebody's type! You made my day, thanks!

For my part I find beauty in girls of all shapes and sizes but what really gets my attention is when a girl has that spark in her eyes that just speaks of her intelligence and her love of life. Nothing is less attractive on a girl than bored and empty looking eyes.

Boys with dark dark hair

guitar callouses on their fingers, and dirty fingernails

black eyes <3 , and thick necks

My boyfriend is Italian, hairy, and very tempermental. He's the only one who's been able to pull it all off and not have me hate him. Other guys with similar trait combos suck, in my opinion. Oh, and his mushy side that his friends barely get a glance of.

im not sure how many of these are weird, but i was thinking about what im attracted to the other day...

dark eyes/hair

warm hands

good shoulders to lean on

nice arms (not too toned...i actually REALLY like lanky guys and think overly buff guys are unattractive)

guys with guitars....(probably not unusual haha)

nice teeth

i have to say taller than me. im not that tall (5'6-5'7ish) so not hard to do

SMELLS GOOD!

amazing hugger

has passion for something. (hobby, etc.)

luckily my boyfriend fulfills every category : )

i like hands too. hands, arms and shoulders. kinda weird.

lips, but that's not that weird. and i guess i don't find it attractive in any boy i have met except for my current boyfriend. he has a lip ring too. so maybe that's part of it.

i guess people would find the most odd is that i like when my boyfriend is smelly. i think it's a lot more natural anyway. but i like how he smells.

and i really like when boys can be okay with being close to other guys or when they can admit that they think another boy is attractive. a lot of guys think that if they admit that another guy is attractive it makes them gay. that's really really dumb. if they are that worried about being gay that they avoid saying the things they think than maybe they are. (and that wouldn't be bad. it would be a lot better than pretending to be someone they aren't.)