the worst boyfriend or girlfriend you've ever had?

who's the worst girl or guy you've been in a relationship with? tell the stories and give the details.

I am living with a guy that is a constant liar. he is a nice. totally my type except he is 5 yrs my junior(what was I thinking?), we began dating while I was getting my degree at college. well first he went on a trip to Spain with a fellow male co-worker and he whored left and right. Needless to say I found pictures of a random girls boob in his mouth and other pictures and a very well narrated story abt how he wasted a whole box of comdoms...at least he used protection??

So I forgave him he said we had just begun and he wasnt sure of what he was doing...hmm never build on shaky grounds right

throughout the next following months I have found countless..I mean countless porn memberships, facebook, localhookupz,jerkit.com,faces4u you name he has a secret account with everyone one. Of course I would try to hack them and I actually succeed and I read countless amount of emails and messages where he makes up the most ludicrous story of how he is a big shot in graduate school so not true, a porn web designer?? omg and women actually respond to all his ****.

And the deal breaker drumroll please emails to the ex-girl friend/fiancee telling her he loved her...awwww poor baby and giving her his telephone so she can call him(during his work hours) I told him i saw it and he said he need to contact her and GET CLOSURE..I thought only girls needed closure!! anyways I gave him closure to our relationship instead. I just ended everything and I am currently waiting for him to move out which should be tomorrow.

i like your story its so sad but you seem to have handled it pretty good. when ever you can make a joke out of a bad situation its a good indicator of you moving on...

ipodless ...priceless!!!!lol

good luck

I dated a classic psychopath. Fortunately he wasn't very smart....but he did get $300 from me and cheated on me so I guess I wasn't very smart either.

I dated a pathological liar. He had me convinced he had been a victim of 9/11, buried under the rubble for 11 days before he was rescued barely alive and had a team of doctors basically turn him into the bionic man, had diabetes and erectile dysfunction as a result of his injuries, and stated he was immortal...I broke up with him after that. But it took several months for me to see through these lies....yikes.

The worst, though, was my bf of five years. He manipulated me and used emotional abuse to keep me with him, refused to have sex after the first 6 months or so (he had some serious intimacy issues), and eventually turned me into his personal assistant, maid, unpaid employee, and mother, and I had no idea how I got there. My sense of self-worth was in the toilet, I was confused and miserable, and felt completely trapped. That one was pretty hard to claw my way out of.

I've learned a lot about others and about myself in the process, though. Now I am with someone who is the most wonderful partner I could ever hope for, a truly GOOD person to the core, who trears me with love and respect and appreciation. Maybe all the bad stuff happened to give me an appreciation of the good stuff!

ohhhh, i dated a guy that i met on the internet (my bad), he was all into me from the pics i had sent him and everything.  I had told him that i was chubby, and that i had had two c sections and my belly was a little flabby and that it made me very self conscious.  He assured me that I was beautiful and sweet and it didn't matter. We met and then we had sex and it was great and everything was great.  We continued to talk and we were very happy with eachother and our relationship progressed and got stronger and better and I was soo happy and in love.  We soon started telling eachother that we loved eachother and we started seeing eachother every chance we got.  He started acting weird and I asked him why he hadn't changed his profile statuses to "in a relationship" instead of single and he told me he just hadn't gotten to it.  I suspected him of talking to other girls online so I decided to set him up.  I made a fake profile and wrote to him and sure enough he responeded.  I had asked him (as her) if he had a gf and he said yeah but they were about to break up because she was having issues with her kids not liking him and she was a little too chubby for him.  He was interested so I asked him (as the other girl) if he wanted to meet and he said yes!!!!  I was horrified and soo soo heartbroken :(  I told him it was me and that I was very upset and didn't want to see him anymore and that was it, we talked a few times after that and then stopped speaking all together.  About a year later he wrote me and after we had talked for a while I asked him why he stayed with me for so long if he didn't like my body and he told me it was because I was sweet, and he liked my personality and I had a cute face.  I asked him if he would ever go out with me again (not that I wanted to) and he said no, because he was only attracted to short, skinny girls and he liked a flat tummy.  I was a little hurt but it didn't matter to me anymore because I realized how completely shallow he was!  I still to this day don't understand how he could have dated me for so long knowing that he wasn't really attracted to me. the bad part was that I realllllllllly liked him alot!  so that was a hard one but I learned a lesson and that was that if a guy really likes you and is really into you then they won't care what your outside looks like, as long as they find you attractive, size shouldn't matter and if it does they should tell you right away!

highschool guy who was slightly possessive so after I broke up with him he wrote expletives all over the highschool walls about me being involved with his best friend!!

Then bump into him 3 years later on the transit and he practically got to his knees begging for me to be his girlfriend again