What wouldn't you do in front of your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Alrighty, so let's say you've been going out with your boyfriend/girlfriend for about 7-10 months, would you still be shy to do some stuff you'd never do at the beginning of your relationship?
I've been going out with mine for about 9 months, I've done everything ( including burping ) except farting. My worst fear is a deadly but silent when it's just both of us!
What about you guys?
I don't use the bathroom infront of him...I don't fart or burp infront of him..I don't wax infront of him...I don't do my toe nails infront of him... I clean at night because I don't like to clean infront of him (that's even weird to me)... there's much much more BELIEVE me.
Him on the otherhand.... everything's fair game with him. He does EVERYTHING infront of me!! I think like disenchantra said earlier, I don't do much infront of him because if HE grosses the hell out of ME and makes me wanna puke.... why would I want to do it too lol PLUS, to me sometimes it's such a turn off. I don't know, that's just my opinion
well, im not in a realationship.. but when i was going out with this guy... i couldnt do anything i couldnt say a strait sentence, i couldnt give him a hug nothing , i was to afraid i would screw it up......& to tell the truth i think i messed up big time because we went out 3X's not once did i kiss him?i think i hurt him but he's over it now going out with this girl from school?
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Erm, the only thing I don't do in front of my boyfriend is going to the toilet for number one or two. Thats just grose. However, if I really need to go to the loo and his parents aren't in, I might leave the door open a little. Then he'll complain and probably fart near me. :P
So I'll burp near him. I can't help burping, it just comes out, I guess i'm just quite gassy.
In fact, if he's in the bathroom he'll close the door even if he's brushing his teeth. So, no showers togeather... however, I did have a bath once (in my old house) and he sat on the loo. Being in the bath with other people in the room (to a degree) doesn't bother me that much though. Don't mind in front of my mum or sister either.
I can't think of anything else. We're pretty much open people. I see him shave all the time, and he cringes when I squeeze zits on my face. I say it's punishment for all the farting in bed!
Mind (as unusual as it may sound) when I was little my mum and dad would have conversations from the bottom loo up to the bathroom, and me and my brothers and sister would sit on the stairs and we'd have a talk. So... meh... (however, I think I'd freak if I saw my dad talk while he's on the loo now. haha. Or have the door open!)
I think it's a matter of respect. If I wouldn't do it in front of my parents (and they were pretty strict when it came to "good manners") I normally don't do it in front of my husband, either. We don't pass gas, burp, pick our noses or our zits or use facilities in front of each other. If the unexpected happens, we still say "excuse me". I don't shave certain areas, pluck or wax in front of him; anything having to do w/TTOM (except for the occasional cramp comment) is private. I don't even know IF he uses the bathroom, let alone when.
And I must say - I think it has kept us at a comfort level that has not deteriorated into boredom or "grossness". I have rarely, if ever (can't think of anything right now) seen him do anything gross on purpose that could cross my mind and make him less desirable to me in a physical sense, and I hope he can say the same. Sometimes, less is more! We are not prudes; we just don't think it's necessary to share EVERYTHING - bathrooms have doors for a reason.
We may be a little odd, though, because we still thank each other for small favors, and even chores the other does. We may be throwbacks to a different age! :) I can see, though, how it would be easy to fall into the habit of letting go more and more.
I used to be really shy about eating in front of my boyfriend but thats kinda done and over with now. I try to keep my self from falling over (which I do alot) in front of him lol. I'm comfortable with him but not enough to make myself look like a fool!
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we do everything infront of eachother....we are tight like that. we even give eachother fist to fist pounds if someone farts louder than the other....hahahahaha... She's my best friend.
OQ. anything which would make either of us feel in anyway uncomfortable, repulsed or any other negative feelings.
If I am in the bathroom, door's closed! That's it. And vice versa. He's much sexier when I don't know what he's up to in there ;) We have been together for a couple of years and living together for over a year, so I am pretty comfortable walking around naked/getting up to other mischief with the lights on. Though I was from the beginning! I have my own body issues but hiding myself from my partner isn't one of them. I get mad when he watches me too closely when I'm cooking though (he's a chef so I know he is secretly being critical!)
i would not ever pass gas in front of them, that is just the utmost disrespect and plus i hate to expose him to that toxic gas, lol
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